小中男

Admission to a good college is diificult and critiria is high.

What the parents may not realize that

1) the bar for them to get a job is also higher

2) the bar for them to get promotion is also higher

We, as parents, should

1) Tell them the ugly truth

2) Tell them that getting into a good college is just the beginning

3) Think about enpower yourself and others, not just folow the rules others set up for you.  You will never win......

4) Do not do competition just because you think the top college like that, nor participate sports, .......

 

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• well said -Bingshan- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/30/2018 postreply 23:07:02

• 这个bar也太高了。 -ymchs1982- ♂ (0 bytes) () 03/30/2018 postreply 23:23:52

• 换个话题 -Mindy19- ♀ (233 bytes) () 03/30/2018 postreply 23:48:55

• True, however a stronger power sucks millions of boys into this -茅山道士- ♂ (0 bytes) () 03/30/2018 postreply 23:36:29

• Well said. Lead and change, not just follow and adapt. -tennisluv- ♂ (0 bytes) () 03/31/2018 postreply 00:21:06

• 好工作容易 -中国心中国人- ♂ (0 bytes) () 03/31/2018 postreply 02:01:05