+1 我是相信人都是懒惰的。对有些人，学习这根“弦”一旦松了，可能就恢复不了了。

对意志力强的人，还能够恢复。

 

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• opposite, need recoup and recharge from grade school yrs. --worldance-- ♀ (0 bytes) () 05/18/2017 postreply 06:17:19

• many adolescent psychologists called it --worldance-- ♀ (153 bytes) () 05/18/2017 postreply 06:22:01

• 量力而行。没有实力上顶级大学，就不要去凑热闹了 -ca981- ♂ (154 bytes) () 05/18/2017 postreply 06:36:22

• it has less to do with competitiveness of grade school, --worldance-- ♀ (256 bytes) () 05/18/2017 postreply 06:47:14

• 那是你们把目标定得太高，把普通的学生生活变成了torture. -ca981- ♂ (381 bytes) () 05/18/2017 postreply 07:04:01

• not at all, totally different "species":))) --worldance-- ♀ (265 bytes) () 05/18/2017 postreply 07:13:05