3. Lesson 3: 小中女26前集中精力on marriage with like-age 小中男/小白男! Don't drag on with man until you are too old to fight your new competitors--20+小留女!
2. Lesson: Don't be a bossy, high-profile(牛逼哄哄)奇葩丈母娘.
1. Lesson: Try not to chase the hottest major/job and do best to avoid job/city hopping.