“Son, what are you so mad at?”, from the movie, Seabiscuit

I strongly recommend the movie Seabiscuit to everyone especially the father who was so angry and mad.

In the movie, there is a one line, Charles, the owner,  asked Red, the rider,“Son, what are you so mad at?.  That simple line of question made Red think about his past and why he is always mad.

Sometimes, we are mad and angry not because of what has just happened, or at someone who is standing in front of us, or sitting besides us. They are simply a trigger, a trigger that ignites our anger at ourselves and our past.

I will borrow this line from the internet “Until we learn how to forgive we are haunted by our past”.  

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• nod，生气是自己的问题 --百科-- ♀ (193 bytes) () 01/03/2017 postreply 08:15:10

• 我没那么能自省 -skyport- ♂ (110 bytes) () 01/03/2017 postreply 08:18:50

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• 亲人之间当然不一样，但是亲情也是相互的 -skyport- ♂ (0 bytes) () 01/03/2017 postreply 08:26:41

• 你还不知道 -教导l- ♂ (0 bytes) () 01/03/2017 postreply 08:29:38

• 我家的 -一九得九- ♀ (89 bytes) () 01/03/2017 postreply 08:35:09

• 二麻子？ -孵蛋妈- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/03/2017 postreply 08:40:05

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• 啥事体？ -孵蛋妈- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/03/2017 postreply 08:39:13

• 我都没敢问他，说不定是他演，他还是比较会 -一九得九- ♀ (32 bytes) () 01/03/2017 postreply 08:42:33

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• 太深刻了，可能性格大度的人也少生气，长寿 -Narnar- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/03/2017 postreply 08:27:54