如何拒绝这邀请?

来源: kathyzh 2015-08-04 06:53:47 [] [旧帖] [给我悄悄话] 本文已被阅读: 次 (948 bytes)
My daughter (10 years old) got invitation from her friend (classmate) for sleepover party. The girl's mom called us to invite my daughter to come to her house for sleepover. I don't want my daughter to sleep at someone's house which I don't know the parents. So I told her we had something to do in the following day and my daughter cannot do sleepover. I gave her my email account to ask her to send me her home address, however, she didn't. Today I called her again and she told me the address. I did google map and found the house was in very poor area. I don't judge people based on their wealth but that neighborhood still makes not want to send my daughter to there, especially we (parents) are not invited. On the first phone conversation, I told her my daughter will be there for party, now after finding her house location, I am hesitate to let my daughter to there. How can I turn down that invitation now?

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送她去Party,但提前接她回家,给个借口不用过夜,对方家长也不会介意的。 -童遥- 给 童遥 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/04/2015 postreply 06:59:08

这样就挺合适了,不参加sleepover很好理解。 -代小酒- 给 代小酒 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/04/2015 postreply 08:23:15

+1. 事先跟女儿说清楚。我家是一律不可以sleep over。不论谁家。 -incywincy- 给 incywincy 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/04/2015 postreply 08:23:26

孩子在家里, 院子里玩, 不会有问题的。 我们去过这种, 那个妈妈很会搞, 孩子们玩的特别高兴 -qiaomaidou6- 给 qiaomaidou6 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/04/2015 postreply 07:04:53

如果是我,我不会因为同学家住的地区如何而让孩子失一个好的朋友。当然你有你担心的原因。 -小团员- 给 小团员 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/04/2015 postreply 07:17:22

如果是能在同一个学区上学,就不会差得太远吧,不可能一边是富人区另一边就是贫民窟 -keessa- 给 keessa 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/04/2015 postreply 07:40:46

I will send my D to party and pick her at 10PM -cwc- 给 cwc 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/04/2015 postreply 10:26:45

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