我该怎样帮助我的孩子?他是否有多动症?

来源: 小金牛 2015-06-30 00:06:08 [] [旧帖] [给我悄悄话] 本文已被阅读: 次 (2899 bytes)
我的孩子还有两个月就要六岁了,是个男孩。这是SUMMER BREAK 时老师的评语:

Alex has shown improvement in his listening, behavior, and cooperation skills, but he has much more work to do. Alex still takes a very long time to get his jobs done in the cloakroom and because of that he arrives late to the carpet every day. He often forgets to take his notice bag out of his backpack and needs to be prompted to get his cooperation checklist ready.he sometimes participates in the morning routines. When he is the special person, he needs help to complete his jobs because he is not yet confident with the routines. At the carpet, Alex interrupts a lot and will often shout out answers that the special person is supposed to answer. This makes the other children upset but Alex does not act sorry or concerned. He is being encouraged to put up his hand and to think about the feelings of the others. With prompting, Alex is able to do kind things in the classroom but he is not yet displaying intrinsic motivation to do so. He does get along with his peers better at centre time and can sometimes problem-solve at the peace table successfully but he does need teacher support sometimes. He is having difficulty lining up without fighting with his peers and walking properly in the hallway and is therefore having trouble transitioning to and from music class, the gym, and the library. His work has improved because he is stating his assignments right away and is focusing netter on his own jobs instead of worrying about what everyone else is doing. 

偶尔,我会看到他把字母和数字左右反过来写。

0-3他一直跟我妈妈和我在加拿大,是一个好乖好甜蜜的孩子,唯一让我累的就是要陪睡,还有,动作很慢。

可是3至四岁零两个月,他和我的妈妈回中国,再见到他时已经面目全非了。孩子和我的感情还是很好,四岁带两个月时,他说:“虽然我崇拜的人时奥特曼,但我最爱最爱的人还是妈妈”。孩子会问一些很好的科学问题,有无数个为什么,但是,孩子的个性不好,在外面吃饭的时候一会儿就站在椅子上。容易发脾气。我把他带回加拿大后,一边上班,一边照顾他,真是艰难呀。他从不FOLLOW 我的 INSTRUCTION,在DAYCARE的时候, 那些CARE GIVER 也反映独自给他读书时他会专心,但如果是一个GROUP的小朋友一起听故事,他就很容易受到外界的干扰。

上次CHRISTMAD BREAK之前,老师跟我反映情况,回来后好好教训了一顿,好像情况有所好转。说实话,我不知道他这样是被我父母宠坏了,还是有多动症。

其实他是个爱学习,爱思考的孩子 i,qiqiuz

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他现在的情况是睡觉还不敢一个人睡,还要大人陪着才会入睡。说是会做恶梦。 -小金牛- 给 小金牛 发送悄悄话 (502 bytes) () 06/30/2015 postreply 00:14:32

朋友,孩子还小,耐心点 -bigsharkbig- 给 bigsharkbig 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 06/30/2015 postreply 04:12:58

听起来就像一个正常的五岁男孩。 -偶灯斯陋- 给 偶灯斯陋 发送悄悄话 偶灯斯陋 的博客首页 (592 bytes) () 06/30/2015 postreply 01:16:51

推荐 看<巧虎>。 -lihuama- 给 lihuama 发送悄悄话 lihuama 的博客首页 (2453 bytes) () 06/30/2015 postreply 04:51:15

可能是英语还不够好,听不太懂。平常在家也要教点manners方面的东西。我们有时太注重娃的聪明与否,比较忽视娃的social能力 -篱笆08- 给 篱笆08 发送悄悄话 篱笆08 的博客首页 (169 bytes) () 06/30/2015 postreply 05:28:49

点赞! 子女教育:我'帮'孩子学英文。 - 由lihuama发表- -lihuama- 给 lihuama 发送悄悄话 lihuama 的博客首页 (277 bytes) () 06/30/2015 postreply 05:31:06

丽华妈妈教孩子是真用心。 -篱笆08- 给 篱笆08 发送悄悄话 篱笆08 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 06/30/2015 postreply 05:35:41

是,你说的太对了。我的孩子我就是忽略了这一点。三岁以后在家里的时间太多,没有SOCIAL。 -小金牛- 给 小金牛 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 06/30/2015 postreply 07:50:08

3 -COMC- 给 COMC 发送悄悄话 (6 bytes) () 06/30/2015 postreply 06:28:27

我是单亲妈妈,他的爸爸从孩子出生就没有照顾过,关心过孩子,也没有付过一分抚养费。他的爷爷和奶奶虽然都是受过高等教育的,但 -小金牛- 给 小金牛 发送悄悄话 (970 bytes) () 06/30/2015 postreply 07:48:13

耐心,做家务这种事就松一点,严格帮他学会走路时别跑,音乐会故事会等boring的时候能坐住 -楚心- 给 楚心 发送悄悄话 楚心 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 06/30/2015 postreply 06:53:03

我觉得你可以和孩子的医生谈谈。我不觉得孩子有什么大问题,但确实需要extra work. -N.- 给 N. 发送悄悄话 N. 的博客首页 (527 bytes) () 06/30/2015 postreply 07:48:52

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