女儿的好朋友 厌学, 影响到我女儿, 请叫如何处理 ?

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My daughter is in 10th grade. Her close friend hates this high school, and want to transfer to another one which has more of her friends, but her parents are forcing her to stay because my daughter is here, and hope her can do better.

 

This girl is a strong willed and smart child, who has many bad habits, like not doing homework, stay late every night.

 

My daughter has been friends with her for many years, and some of my daughter's decision was influenced by her. Yesterday morning, my daughter said "Don't like school.", I say " Why ?", she said "No body likes school, in general." Never heard this from her before. 

I want to tell the parents, keeping the girl in this school will ruin the girl and also my daughter, but not sure if it's approperiate to say this directly in front of them.

 

It's hard for my daughter to stay away from her, and hard to transfer my daughter to another school at this time in high school. 

 

How to handle this ? Any suggestions would be appreciated !

 

 

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• 没看出你女儿不喜欢她学校啊，管好自己孩子是关键，别人的孩子别人管吧。女儿十年级了不会没主见吧。 -尚宫娘娘- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/20/2013 postreply 11:33:58

• 回复：没看出你女儿不喜欢她学校啊，管好自己孩子是关键，别人的孩子别人管吧。女儿十年级了不会没主见吧。 -问题1- ♀ (142 bytes) () 09/20/2013 postreply 11:36:46

• 你女儿没说错啊：））） -胡桃架子-- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/20/2013 postreply 11:37:43

• 就和我们说不喜欢上班一样。正常。 -尚宫娘娘- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/20/2013 postreply 11:39:13

• 到了高中都忙起来了，不好玩了。大多数都不喜欢上学。 -云逸徉- ♂ (0 bytes) () 09/20/2013 postreply 11:41:12

• Really ! Try to keep her positive as long as I can, but still fa -问题1- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/20/2013 postreply 11:43:05

• 请大家帮忙看看. 谢谢 -问题1- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/20/2013 postreply 11:34:19

• 很简单了，如果她们有在一起的课，换课换老师。上课时间不在一起。放学马上去接孩子。减少她们见面的时间即可。 -云逸徉- ♂ (0 bytes) () 09/20/2013 postreply 11:39:05

• 搬家吧，学孟母三迁 -skyport- ♂ (0 bytes) () 09/20/2013 postreply 11:40:15

• Too late, high risk. -问题1- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/20/2013 postreply 11:42:01

• 不搬的风险是不是更大？大孩子朋友的影响比父母的大啊 -skyport- ♂ (0 bytes) () 09/20/2013 postreply 11:43:37

• The girl wants to change school. How to convince the parents to -问题1- ♀ (139 bytes) () 09/20/2013 postreply 11:46:31

• You can't. -skyport- ♂ (54 bytes) () 09/20/2013 postreply 11:50:52

• Transfer my daughter has disadvantage to my kid. Will be hard fo -问题1- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/20/2013 postreply 11:59:33

• 两害相权取其轻吧 -skyport- ♂ (0 bytes) () 09/20/2013 postreply 12:11:15

• 你无法管别人的事，但你女儿是你的责任。受负面影响多确实是不好。 -lily5170- ♀ (138 bytes) () 09/20/2013 postreply 11:46:56

• 谢谢! Her parents want her to follow my daughter's steps to take t -问题1- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/20/2013 postreply 11:50:47

• 那不挺好的，说明人家看你女儿好，而且觉得她是leader呀。。。 -胡桃架子-- ♀ (95 bytes) () 09/20/2013 postreply 11:53:04

• I thought the same, but now realized that my daughter doesn't ha -问题1- ♀ (146 bytes) () 09/20/2013 postreply 12:01:26

• 孩子总会交往各种不同的孩子，只要孩子不是那种特别容易被影响的就没事。 -在温哥华- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/20/2013 postreply 11:53:34

• It seems not that simple. -问题1- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/20/2013 postreply 12:07:24

• 这个确实有点头痛。孩子往往受朋友影响挺大的。我觉着你可能要和你女儿分析分析她的朋友。 -旖旎风光- ♀ (191 bytes) () 09/20/2013 postreply 12:12:21

• 不知道谈什么? -patricia_432- ♀ (6 bytes) () 09/20/2013 postreply 15:22:39

• Ask your daushter what she will do if she quits the school. Ask -Xingfujiaren- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/20/2013 postreply 12:16:06

• 我觉得， -msrbcm- ♀ (919 bytes) () 09/20/2013 postreply 12:23:04

• Have talked. -问题1- ♀ (150 bytes) () 09/20/2013 postreply 13:18:18

• 先想想为什么你的女儿受影响，而不是影响别人？另外，她们为什么愿意作朋友？ -soundofsilence- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/20/2013 postreply 13:04:14

• Personality. -问题1- ♀ (124 bytes) () 09/20/2013 postreply 13:12:41