请教各位( case study)

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• What do you want others to help? Improve grades? -CirrusCloud- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/17/2013 postreply 13:10:31

• Yes -sji- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/17/2013 postreply 13:11:28

• 回复：Yes I need advice from all of you. -sji- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/17/2013 postreply 13:12:51

• 跟你有一个类似的孩子。 -路是走出来的- ♀ (454 bytes) () 03/17/2013 postreply 13:14:55

• 除了每天提醒，我也想不出什么办法来。还可以物质奖励一下吧。 -CirrusCloud- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/17/2013 postreply 13:15:59

• he do not need any 物质奖励.. when he was at class his mind is not t -sji- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/17/2013 postreply 13:21:19

• 个性太强 -又当爹来又当妈- ♀ (133 bytes) () 03/17/2013 postreply 13:22:11

• He do not have leadership talent. -sji- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/17/2013 postreply 13:24:46

• 这坛里崇尚的，俱乐部主席之类的都是伪leadership -又当爹来又当妈- ♀ (85 bytes) () 03/17/2013 postreply 13:29:35

• 事实上改变这样的孩子和改变IQ一样难。 -壮士- ♂ (0 bytes) () 03/17/2013 postreply 13:26:47

• For motivation: volunteer to tutor poor -blackmatter- ♀ (480 bytes) () 03/17/2013 postreply 13:31:28

• He have math talent,as a parent , -sji- ♀ (124 bytes) () 03/17/2013 postreply 13:35:42

• what is a good school in u r mind? -blackmatter- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/17/2013 postreply 13:37:50

• MIT is his dream school -sji- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/17/2013 postreply 13:39:32

• Then going MIT is the motivation. -blackmatter- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/17/2013 postreply 13:44:47

• 好好给他讲MIT不接受不能按时完成作业的孩子 -又当爹来又当妈- ♀ (205 bytes) () 03/17/2013 postreply 13:46:49

• 100% right -sji- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/17/2013 postreply 13:48:04

• 找到症结了，就给他讲清道理 -又当爹来又当妈- ♀ (381 bytes) () 03/17/2013 postreply 14:00:32

• this approach won't work for teen boys -blackmatter- ♀ (110 bytes) () 03/17/2013 postreply 14:11:30

• 告诉他可以挑战现行系统，但是会有后果地 -又当爹来又当妈- ♀ (95 bytes) () 03/17/2013 postreply 14:18:23

• you haven't got an official teen yet. :)) -blackmatter- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/17/2013 postreply 14:21:07

• 他太灵活，你太古板 -又当爹来又当妈- ♀ (138 bytes) () 03/17/2013 postreply 14:25:49

• If u r approach works on -sji- 's son and ur -blackmatter- ♀ (194 bytes) () 03/17/2013 postreply 14:43:58

• 我不会尽完全力，然后期盼 -又当爹来又当妈- ♀ (57 bytes) () 03/17/2013 postreply 14:47:05

• 虽然没有经验，但感觉私校正是这种孩子的好去处 -文学村民- ♂ (86 bytes) () 03/17/2013 postreply 13:37:44

• do not have money to pay private school -sji- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/17/2013 postreply 13:41:03

• a bit better. But parent expectation is higher too. -blackmatter- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/17/2013 postreply 13:42:35

• That is his dream school but not parent's -sji- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/17/2013 postreply 13:45:12

• 文学村民 meant private middle/high school. -blackmatter- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/17/2013 postreply 13:47:13

• 同意村民，私校是个好选择。赤贫吗?赤贫私校不花你多少钱。只是初中成绩不好，很难考到好高中。 -shanxishui- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/17/2013 postreply 13:47:11

• I think his SAT is OK (1800 for 7th grade) -sji- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/17/2013 postreply 13:51:30

• 公校私校都无所谓，关键是 -又当爹来又当妈- ♀ (127 bytes) () 03/17/2013 postreply 14:07:07

• 公校老师不敢管太严 -文学村民- ♂ (0 bytes) () 03/17/2013 postreply 14:09:17

• have teacher conference 2-3 time but not improve -sji- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/17/2013 postreply 14:12:39

• 他的关键不是严管 -又当爹来又当妈- ♀ (163 bytes) () 03/17/2013 postreply 14:14:29

• you are very good -sji- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/17/2013 postreply 14:16:11

• 找到一样他喜欢的，不管啥，整好！整出信心和excitement。多和老师联系，拿到作业和project，micromanagem -shanxishui- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/17/2013 postreply 13:42:35

• 他已经过于信心了。可以跟老师联系给他布置更富于挑战性作业和project，micromanagem -又当爹来又当妈- ♀ (35 bytes) () 03/17/2013 postreply 14:31:46

• his mind is not at class -sji- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/17/2013 postreply 14:06:21

• 设法使用有效手段让他转变观念 -又当爹来又当妈- ♀ (49 bytes) () 03/17/2013 postreply 14:10:45

• How very and How good at moth? -天涯栀子- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/17/2013 postreply 14:21:29

• are you asking his math? -sji- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/17/2013 postreply 14:24:01

• If you meant he is good at math, then Yes -天涯栀子- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/17/2013 postreply 14:32:08

• hardly find someone can beat him at state level -sji- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/17/2013 postreply 14:38:41

• 你的孩子很聪明。第一步想办法让他按时完成“stupid”作业，另外一个重点是 -又当爹来又当妈- ♀ (19 bytes) () 03/17/2013 postreply 14:44:15

• 这么厉害！你不用担心 -天涯栀子- ♀ (98 bytes) () 03/17/2013 postreply 14:54:43

• i am worry about his GPA, on school math he get B or C -sji- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/17/2013 postreply 15:01:56

• staudy habit is more important than GPA before 9th gr. -blackmatter- ♀ (77 bytes) () 03/17/2013 postreply 15:10:49

• study. -blackmatter- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/17/2013 postreply 15:11:40

• 只要英文不落后，就不要怕。高中懂事了，GPA就能好 -天涯栀子- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/17/2013 postreply 15:12:19

• 耐心等待 -芦苇葱葱- ♀ (415 bytes) () 03/17/2013 postreply 14:35:52

• 等待是一种方式，更好的方式是 -又当爹来又当妈- ♀ (203 bytes) () 03/17/2013 postreply 14:41:40

• 引导肯定是的，是互相的沟通，引导和理解。从他身上也学到很多。。。 -芦苇葱葱- ♀ (243 bytes) () 03/17/2013 postreply 15:07:24

• Mine was a nonconformist, sometimes 颠倒黑白，不可理喻. -blackmatter- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/17/2013 postreply 15:19:05

• lol,我儿子也是，他有时候就是故意找茬跟我辩论，这大概也是teen发泄反叛的方式之一。 -芦苇葱葱- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/17/2013 postreply 15:32:00

• 家教如何？ -周游列国逍遥人生- ♂ (0 bytes) () 03/17/2013 postreply 14:36:54

• Not the tiger mom -sji- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/17/2013 postreply 14:41:10

• 有时候还是要记住：无规矩不成方圆 -周游列国逍遥人生- ♂ (0 bytes) () 03/17/2013 postreply 14:50:14

• Thanks -sji- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/17/2013 postreply 14:51:40

• 到目前为止，楼主的表述没有 -又当爹来又当妈- ♀ (81 bytes) () 03/17/2013 postreply 14:53:11

• yes i am 无可奈何. I need advice -sji- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/17/2013 postreply 14:56:30

• 成功三要素：基因，努力，机遇。缺一不可 -周游列国逍遥人生- ♂ (0 bytes) () 03/17/2013 postreply 14:59:02

• 成功三要素：基因，基因，基因 -又当爹来又当妈- ♀ (31 bytes) () 03/17/2013 postreply 16:10:30

• 这个时期的孩子都比较逆反，但 -又当爹来又当妈- ♀ (97 bytes) () 03/17/2013 postreply 15:09:44

• I don,t think 孩子倚仗考试成绩好，拒不按时完成作业. I think -sji- ♀ (36 bytes) () 03/17/2013 postreply 15:07:50

• 那你需要帮助他养成承担责任的习惯 -又当爹来又当妈- ♀ (21 bytes) () 03/17/2013 postreply 15:21:08

• 再等等 -海侃- ♀ (150 bytes) () 03/17/2013 postreply 15:03:03

• 斗胆建议：对这样的孩子，家长必须恩威并进，在学习上稍微逼迫一下， -顽童妈妈- ♀ (362 bytes) () 03/17/2013 postreply 15:36:18

• 我开始以为楼主是爸爸，现在认为楼主是妈妈，请确认 -又当爹来又当妈- ♀ (49 bytes) () 03/17/2013 postreply 15:56:46

• you are so smart -sji- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/17/2013 postreply 17:44:47