something not related.

"也不能教小孩说谎". Knowing how to lie, when to lie, is the basic skill to be sucessful. 

I know some people (actually many) faked their transcripts to get into a good univ. in the US. They are having a really good life now. If they did not lie at the beginning, they may not get the chance at all. You may look down on them, but for them, having a better life is the most important thing. I know one doctore here, who faked a md degree (she was a nurse back in China), and now she is doing very good.

In the US, we were taught when somebody asks you "can you do it", you should always answer "Yes, I can!" Otherwise the chance will be given to others. If you do not know how to do it, you will just need to learn it afterwards.

Nobody likes a  lier. That is why it is very important to teach a child that being honest is very important; but knowing when and how to play tricks make a difference between a ordinary people or a sucessful person. Of course you may be happy with being a ordinary person. That is your choice. Do not do obvious lies, but one needs to learn how to turn black to white with all decent reasons. 

I may offend some friends here, sorry! 

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• 人之初，性本善。父母教育和环境会影响他们。 -TommyMom- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/09/2012 postreply 08:30:28

• it is a very tough。 -Smart- ♂ (463 bytes) () 11/09/2012 postreply 08:34:58

• 去好学区读书，就是想要一个好的环境。却又不改陋习 -TommyMom- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/09/2012 postreply 08:55:11

• one can argue -Smart- ♂ (204 bytes) () 11/09/2012 postreply 09:09:06

• 你有这个想法将来改正，还是不错的。可是 -TommyMom- ♀ (271 bytes) () 11/09/2012 postreply 09:24:22

• everybody has his own standard. We do -Smart- ♂ (127 bytes) () 11/09/2012 postreply 09:54:35

• I am not telling you that you should change your opinion -TommyMom- ♀ (260 bytes) () 11/09/2012 postreply 10:56:24