Maybe I am different than many others here.

I always try to tell my son he should be proud of being from China. He has different friends with different colors. We never tried to tell him to intentionlly learn from white. As long as it is good, whether it is from white or black, we encourage him to learn. We told him if somebody does not like him because he is not white, that person does not deserve to be his friend. Just ignore those kind of people. I believe only in this way, he will fully respect himself and after growing up, he will not feel himself to be secondary to white or any other people. Of course we teach him to respect people of other colors. I forgot who said on this forum, and I deeply agree: if a parents always say low about other Chinese in the US in front of his children, when their children grow up, they will feel naturally that they are secondary to white.

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• I mean "being pround of he has the Chinese origin". He was -Smart- ♂ (17 bytes) () 11/03/2012 postreply 06:08:02

• 说得好。 -yppk- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/03/2012 postreply 07:01:27