大家看看我给老师的EMAIL

Hi Mr.  M

XX (my son, 3rd grader) has been compalining about issues between him and classmates YY and ZZ.  I had been treating all the episodes as common childhood "fights" in the pase, and encouraged him to play with other friends more to "cool down" the situation.  However, he started to compalin that the boys followed him during the recess, watched him playing with a girl, and went about to tell everybody that "XX has a girl friend".  I do not think the boys meant to hurt his feeling, but do feel this would lead to teasing and bully.

Kids do have different prospect of things.  What XX told me might not be exactly happened.  I would like to seek your opinion and advice,

 

Thanks,

anniemom

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• 不要说"XX told me might not be exactly happened" -MMXIAO- ♀ (161 bytes) () 03/09/2012 postreply 13:01:18

• Thanks. I 'm meeting the teacher this afternoon. -anniemom- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/09/2012 postreply 13:03:25

• 个人观点，你还是给你孩子转校吧。 -B4NT- ♂ (0 bytes) () 03/09/2012 postreply 13:02:13

• Please explian. -anniemom- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/09/2012 postreply 13:03:52

• 如果你的儿子在学校真的没有男孩子做朋友，这是个问题。换个学校可能是最好的方法。 -B4NT- ♂ (0 bytes) () 03/09/2012 postreply 13:05:22

• He has other friends, but like to play with this girl sometimes -anniemom- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/09/2012 postreply 13:07:24

• 对一个三年级的男孩子，这不是好事儿。 -B4NT- ♂ (0 bytes) () 03/09/2012 postreply 13:09:13

• you mean he talks to a girl during recess? -anniemom- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/09/2012 postreply 13:11:01

• 不是。问题的关键是不是有男孩子做朋友。你平时要多观察。这对男孩子很重要。 -B4NT- ♂ (0 bytes) () 03/09/2012 postreply 13:12:12

• 我怎么感觉他妈反应过度，你对他妈也反应过度呢 -用户名被占用了- ♂ (0 bytes) () 03/09/2012 postreply 13:13:36

• 一个小男孩儿如果被班上的男同学孤立，家长就要重视这个问题。 -B4NT- ♂ (0 bytes) () 03/09/2012 postreply 13:15:29

• This is part of the reason I emailed the teacher. -anniemom- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/09/2012 postreply 13:17:51

• 最好想办法让孩子自己解决。这个问题对家长是个挑战。 -B4NT- ♂ (0 bytes) () 03/09/2012 postreply 13:35:41

• 我女儿跟一个三年级男孩特别好,被人这么说,被俺女儿顶一句话给顶回去了 -MMXIAO- ♀ (250 bytes) () 03/09/2012 postreply 13:05:33

• 做得好！ -臭臭妈妈- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/09/2012 postreply 13:07:05

• I wish my boy can do the same too! Sigh! -anniemom- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/09/2012 postreply 13:08:03

• pretty good. -用户名被占用了- ♂ (0 bytes) () 03/09/2012 postreply 13:10:02

• haha, smart girl! -Kamioka- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/09/2012 postreply 13:24:48

• 没多大点事嘛，干嘛非见老师？ -帅帅娘- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/09/2012 postreply 13:07:50

• I only emailed the teacher, but the teacher wants to talk to me -anniemom- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/09/2012 postreply 13:09:03

• 我觉得这email都没什么必要 -帅帅娘- ♀ (36 bytes) () 03/09/2012 postreply 13:16:43

• 挺好,不吵闹多沟通没错 -randd2000- ♂ (0 bytes) () 03/09/2012 postreply 13:13:58

• Thanks everyone. I will update after meeting with his teacher. -anniemom- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/09/2012 postreply 13:16:59

• 老师不太管小孩子tease，但是如果你孩子学习或者情绪受影响要教他应对。 -Kamioka- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/09/2012 postreply 13:28:22

• 不是大事, 这年龄层的, 这样正常. 有空看看.diary of a wimpy kid. 多开玩笑, 一平常心对待. -duckpear- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/09/2012 postreply 13:23:01

• 回复：大家看看我给老师的EMAIL -Kamioka- ♀ (1318 bytes) () 03/09/2012 postreply 13:23:17

• yes a much better job ! -用户名被占用了- ♂ (0 bytes) () 03/09/2012 postreply 13:25:31

• 拍马争取支持很重要哈 : ) -jcm3346- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/09/2012 postreply 13:44:54

• 我女儿三年纪, 他们班上是不允许说boyfriend or girlfriend的. 老师听到会口头警告(warning)矫正不 -duckpear- ♀ (24 bytes) () 03/09/2012 postreply 14:08:36

• 那样是对的。其实这种男女朋友的嘲笑也没几年再往后有男女朋友是popular了。 -Kamioka- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/09/2012 postreply 14:12:57

• 赞一个,措辞很合适,立场也表达得很清楚. 应该能得到老师的正面回应 -kittysmom- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/09/2012 postreply 15:05:28

• 我觉得这种取笑别的男孩有女朋友的事情在小孩里面挺正常的，告诉老师于事无补，教育孩子无视别人的嘲笑更有益 -kitty_cat- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/09/2012 postreply 13:32:16

• 回复：我觉得这种取笑别的男孩有女朋友的事情在小孩里面挺正常的，告诉老师于事无补，教育孩子无视别人的嘲笑更有益 -oyster123- ♂ (638 bytes) () 03/09/2012 postreply 17:47:01

• 这个....如果孩子抱怨了有真正的畏惧、难过等情绪表现，家长应该帮助孩子 -ttmum- ♀ (533 bytes) () 03/09/2012 postreply 18:28:36