真地需要砸锅卖铁吗? 谈谈我们的经验. 富人免进

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我们的孩子不是在藤校。 听8听由您.

#1.  真地需要砸锅卖铁.  我们还是会送孩子到好学校. 

#2.  在大部分的情况下, 不需要砸锅卖铁. 

resources for paying college education should come from past (saving), current (income), and future (loans).

   2a.  Most of people will have some saving outside their retirement accounts.  Paying for your kids' education should take priority over other purchases.  For parents with younger kids, you really need to consider how to save some $$ for education.

   2b. income is relatively fixed per parents.  However, have you counted in your child's ability to earn significant $$?  My DD made over $8,000 in her first summer.  This summer, she could easily make another $7,000.  Both my kids have jobs during the school and they pay for 100% of their books and other personal expenses from their jobs. As a resident assistant, DD's room and board will be discounted by 75%.   

   2c. other current factors.  You will see you routine expenses at your house drop because no more E/C, nor more piano lesson, etc.  You could claim significant amount of education credit per your tax. 

   2d.  Multiple kids.  Please talk to the school about their policy on this one.  At our DD's school, they cut our EFC by 50% when DS got into school last year.  On the other hand, DS's school would only offer 40% discount.

#3 loans.  If you are truely low income like us.  You will get subsidized loans -Perkins and Staffords.  The interest in low and the Government pays the interest while you are in school.  It is not that bad to have 20~25K subsidized loans for all 4 years.  It is basically a cheap car.

If you figure all the 1, 2, and 3 you still felt the budget is tight. Go talk to school.  All the good schools are "full need" schools.  Go as early as possible when they have not given out all the reserved funds.  I think I am one of the best per "how to demonstrate our needs".    I think I will write a book about it after my kids are all out of schools.  There is definitely an art of presenting yourself to FA officers.

Remember, you don't have to accept the FA offer.  My advice is that you never accept the initial FA offer no matter what.

Paying for college education is difficult even for the rich people and it is especially challenging for poor people like us.  With two kids in schools, we are paying almost $20,000 a year out of pocket and DS is taking out both Perkins and Stafford loans.  But we are glad to tight our belts so we could give them a good starting point in their life. 

bets of luck to you and yours.   

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顶!等大奔的书来解答N年的谜团:) -毕小珠-- 给 毕小珠- 发送悄悄话 毕小珠- 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 04/02/2011 postreply 09:13:43

what 谜团 are you talking about? Just hate to see kids from poor -Big_Benz- 给 Big_Benz 发送悄悄话 Big_Benz 的博客首页 (68 bytes) () 04/02/2011 postreply 09:17:50

谜团=you have to go broke to sent your offsprings to private colle -20146- 给 20146 发送悄悄话 20146 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 04/02/2011 postreply 09:37:22

这里的谜团是大奔开大奔住豪宅仍然得到丰厚FA :) 至少他以前的一些帖子跟大家这个印象。 -毕小珠-- 给 毕小珠- 发送悄悄话 毕小珠- 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 04/02/2011 postreply 09:40:39

哈,after i posted i had a second thought: wait a minut, xiaozhu m -20146- 给 20146 发送悄悄话 20146 的博客首页 (79 bytes) () 04/02/2011 postreply 10:20:24

说说俺接触的具体例子,看看你们孩子背后怎么评价父母支持的 -怎么办?!?- 给 怎么办?!? 发送悄悄话 (537 bytes) () 04/02/2011 postreply 09:25:12

顶。非常详细,还有2个孩子的实例 -蓝调- 给 蓝调 发送悄悄话 蓝调 的博客首页 (171 bytes) () 04/02/2011 postreply 10:30:04

ds = dear son :) 老美的写法,我一直不习惯,觉得有点肉麻:) -毕小珠-- 给 毕小珠- 发送悄悄话 毕小珠- 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 04/02/2011 postreply 10:31:43

:) -蓝调- 给 蓝调 发送悄悄话 蓝调 的博客首页 (15 bytes) () 04/02/2011 postreply 10:33:46

还有DD,DH,就是没有DW一说。 -piggyp- 给 piggyp 发送悄悄话 piggyp 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 04/02/2011 postreply 11:56:37

看来肉麻的主要是wife :) -毕小珠-- 给 毕小珠- 发送悄悄话 毕小珠- 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 04/02/2011 postreply 13:06:05

四年很快的,还没听说过有谁为子女上藤成了杨白劳祥林嫂,除非本来就是 -weston- 给 weston 发送悄悄话 weston 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 04/02/2011 postreply 12:09:02

Thanks a lot for your useful info and advice! -sunshinecity- 给 sunshinecity 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 04/02/2011 postreply 12:11:03

I said 富人免进!!!!! -Big_Benz- 给 Big_Benz 发送悄悄话 Big_Benz 的博客首页 (335 bytes) () 04/02/2011 postreply 14:43:25

藤校 have best finacial aid. They give you much more than other sc -supernav- 给 supernav 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 04/02/2011 postreply 15:38:58

Must say I am disppointed. 9000+ reads and only one "thanks" -Big_Benz- 给 Big_Benz 发送悄悄话 Big_Benz 的博客首页 (167 bytes) () 04/03/2011 postreply 08:12:53

英文看起来很累呀, 能否麻烦您写中文?? (赫赫, 是不是打字很累?)累您一个人, -美妈的家- 给 美妈的家 发送悄悄话 美妈的家 的博客首页 (55 bytes) () 04/04/2011 postreply 00:34:31

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