紧急求助：发生在7岁女儿（一年级）身上

Public School called me yesterday said they found out there were two girls in the same bathroom back to around holiday time. A third girl reported, they were kissing. School wanted me to talk to my child to make sure the door is locked when she goes to bathroom.
However, what I found out was shocked: My daughter went to bathroom and a girl followed her into the same stall. After she peed and stood up, that girl kissed her privacy area (between the legs, she pointed to me). Of course I talked to her about how important to keep her privacy .... right away.
So I went to school this morning and told the counselor about what I have found out.
School principle called me later and told me that they are doing everything on their side ... But when I　asked her what else should I do, she said she can't give me any advice on that.

＊　我该怎么办？ What else would you do?

＊　Do I need to report to any where else? where do we report this kind of thing?　ISD?

＊　I'm not sure how much my daughter understand, how far should I talk about this with her?　If I should have her see any outside counselor to help her understand what had happened?

天塌没塌我也说不清，可是学校听起来很重视。我是真的怕给孩子留下什么后遗症。

不知是否还有什么我没想到的。请指教。

所有跟帖： 

• do not worry too much at this point. and do not talk too much in -OrderedPair- ♂ (161 bytes) () 03/30/2011 postreply 15:16:08

• 挺严重的，这不仅是一方的问题。 -study- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/30/2011 postreply 15:29:13

• 请您讲讲看？ -WLSH- ♀ (118 bytes) () 03/30/2011 postreply 15:51:59

• 我也没遇到过这样的事 -study- ♀ (220 bytes) () 03/30/2011 postreply 16:05:39

• 最好的办法是不再提这事儿。该说的话估计已经都说过了。淡然处之。 -hobo-hobo- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/30/2011 postreply 15:29:47

• 同意。这么大的孩子不懂，如果大人说太多次，反而可能被她们记住了。。。 -毕小珠-- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/30/2011 postreply 17:31:39

• 如果我换作你，也一定焦头烂额。不过这个point,你真的做不了更多。 -posted- ♀ (63 bytes) () 03/30/2011 postreply 15:35:18

• 学校怎么对待那个女孩儿的？ -天赐BB- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/30/2011 postreply 16:21:23

• 赶快去找儿童心理学专家，尤其和性教育有关的专家。校方应该有相关信息。 -olga87- ♀ (105 bytes) () 03/30/2011 postreply 18:18:46

• MM，你一定不能乱。 -lily3- ♀ (210 bytes) () 03/30/2011 postreply 19:26:01

• 还是要继续和孩子多讲讲PRIVACY这一类的话题. 不能回避. -一艘没有锚的小船- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/31/2011 postreply 12:38:39