It is not only problem of "Santa". It is the culture difference.

It is also not fair for our kids that only because we don't belive Santa, we don't care about turkey, they don't have chance to believe those. Since we are living in the US, we need to accept both culture from the US and China, at least for our kids. That is why I indroduce all holidays from both sides,so my kid will be same as others. My son is in K now. He knows he is Chinese, he is proud of that, but he also expect turkey, Santa, bunny...... he wrote letter to Santa, waiting for Santa's gift.... Indroduce the tradition of holidays is our job to let our kids have same topic with their friends in the school.