2) 有钱人> 中产阶级>> 穷人
有钱人 + 中产阶级不用担心日常生活费用,生活压力较少 有利于孩子正常成长. 特别他们能买得起好区的房子. 上好学校甚至私立学校. 入藤校机会大多了.
3) FA办公室的不是傻瓜. Whatever idea you could casually come up to reduce your payment, they must have seen it 100s of times. 做手脚 is possible but your ABC child may not agree to go alone with you. The most basic rule - don't cheat.
The only thing we could agree on "值8值" is to disagree. 价值观 is just too personal.