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警告标志
* Does your partner intimidate you? Does your partner: make you afraid by using looks, actions, or gestures; smashing things; destroying your property; abusing pets; or displaying weapons.
请问你的伴侣恐吓你吗?你的伴侣:以外表,行为,或手势;砸东西;破坏你的财产;虐待宠物;或展示武器让你害怕。
* Is your partner emotionally abusive? Does your partner: put you down; make you feel bad about yourself; call you names; make you think you're crazy; play mind games; humiliate you; make you feel guilty, on a reoccurring basis?
* Does your partner isolate you? Does your partner: control what you do, who you see, and talk to; control what you read and where you go; limit your outside involvement; use jealousy to justify actions?
请问你的伴侣孤立你吗?请问你的伴侣:控制你做什么,见谁,和谁说话,控制你阅读什么和你到哪里;限制你与外界的交流;用嫉妒为由证明行为的合理性吗?
* Does your partner “minimize, deny, and blame?” Does your partner: make light of the abuse and not take your concerns seriously; say the abuse didn't happen; shift responsibility for abusive behavior; say you caused it?Does your partner use your children? Does your partner make you feel guilty about the children; use the children to relay messages; use visitation to harass you; threaten to take the children away?
* Does your partner have a sexist attitude? Does your partner: treat you like a servant; make all the big decisions without you; define men's and women's roles?
你的伴侣是否有性别歧视的态度呢?请问你的伴侣:对你象对待仆人一样;做出重大决定时不与你商量;界定男女的角色吗?
* Is your partner “economically abusive?” Does your partner: prevent you from getting or keeping a job; make you ask for money; give you an allowance; take your money; not let you know about or have access to family income?
你的伴侣“经济虐待”吗?请问你的伴侣:不让你找工作或保持工作;让你要钱;给你津贴;拿你的钱;不让你知道或者使用家庭收入吗
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* Does your partner use coercion and threats? Does your partner: make and/or carry out threats to do something to hurt you; threaten to leave you, to commit suicide, to report you to welfare; make you drop charges, make you do illegal things?
If you answered “ yes ” to any of the above questions, you may be in an abusive relationship.
如果你对上述任何一个问题回答“ 是 ”,你可能会在受虐待的关系。
For more information or to speak with a DVC advocate, contact the Domestic Violence Center at 920.684.5770/1.877.275.6888 or E-mail us. dvc@*****cglobal.net
欲了解更多信息或想与一个DVC人员交谈,联络家庭暴力中心920.684.5770/1.877.275.6888 或E - mail联系我们dvc@*****cglobal.net