horrible if you don't keep this baby. Sometimes it's the hu*****and that needs to be dumped. I only know if your hu*****and(with a green card or citizenship) abuses you, you can still get your green card because they have a law protecting you. But I don't know whether this belongs to a kind of abuse. So call to find out. I don't think it's a big problem. So sorry you are married to such a selfish guy. I'm thinking maybe he has other children from previous affairs or marriages so he's afraid of paying more child support. Take care of yourself. I'll pray for you.