你没问题， 很好。 你老公也没啥大问题， 因为他是男的，生物学属性

的关系。 你就是再好，他在这方面也会需要新鲜刺激。 就是这么简单。年龄和外貌方面的关系不是主要的。 He just need to have a fantasy to be with a different woman.

There is no serious problem here. I bet the fact that he is no longer sexually interested in you doesn't mean you are a woman who is not sexually attractive to other men at all. As matter of fact you said "现在仍有几个以前的男同学喜欢我". But be aware of this: once you go to bed with those 以前的男同学, then the 喜欢 can't last too long either.

On the other hand, marriage and family have other factors to hold it together. A man's fantasy of being with different women shouldn't danger your marriage per se.

Best wishes in the new year.

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• Thanks a lot! I think you are right.one more question: -oringe- ♀ (76 bytes) () 01/01/2009 postreply 07:19:18

• I don't think so. It's most probably just to fullfill -HenryLi- ♂ (19 bytes) () 01/01/2009 postreply 07:23:53

• 李医生啥时转到心理学了？ -rnd- ♂ (0 bytes) () 01/01/2009 postreply 09:18:09

• 这不是经济不好吗, 俺想做点 marriage and sex consulting -HenryLi- ♂ (35 bytes) () 01/01/2009 postreply 09:31:03

• Sounds like a good business.. good luck! -rnd- ♂ (0 bytes) () 01/01/2009 postreply 12:01:40