when my kids cries due to some problems

i tell them stop crying first, because crying won't solve any problem, won't change anything. Then let them talk about the problem what's wrong, what they can do or we can do to fix the problem. the last step is action. After they see the result they will be happy again.

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• 谢谢。请问各位有何可操作性的方法让孩子自觉地快速完成作业？ -豌豆黄儿- ♀ (0 bytes) () 10/23/2008 postreply 10:59:24

• 当孩子哭，先给孩子一个hug。其他相对都是次要的。 -britannica- ♀ (0 bytes) () 10/23/2008 postreply 11:10:14

• 谢谢！这招是很管用，儿子和我很贴心的。可一提作业就完蛋了 -豌豆黄儿- ♀ (0 bytes) () 10/23/2008 postreply 11:16:04