if you force him, you are losing in long term

来源: fpxjz 2008-05-01 10:08:13 [] [旧帖] [给我悄悄话] 本文已被阅读: 0 次 (695 bytes)
my girlfriend's in the same situation. finally, her LG chose company, but he got laid off twice in 5 years, and their relationship got worse and worse. fianlly, he decided to get a tenure position back in china regardless her rejection. at that time, her only choice was divorce or quit her job go back to china.
man likes to be his own boss, it is hard to achive it in the company. this is one of the most important reason some people choose faculty position: he can do what ever research he wants, go to what ever meeting he wants... anyway, money is not everything. you can also look at his benifits, 3-month vocations, lots of free trips, maybe pensions, kid's college tuition waiver..

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3x for your remind. Actually, he's kinda mad because I -hehema- 给 hehema 发送悄悄话 (70 bytes) () 05/01/2008 postreply 10:25:45

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