Want to have 2nd kie, but my daughter doesn't want a brother or

We're planning to have second child, but my daughter doesn't want a brother or sister, how to deal with this?

When we came here, my daughter is about 3 years old. We sent her to preschool. Now she is 9. She is still want to be a baby. When I ask her "Do you want a brother or sister?" She always say "No. they are annoying."

How do you deal with this? How to let the older child accept the younger child. Actually, I wish she can ask me to make one for her to play with.

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• 9岁的孩子对这事的话,大人不用太在意. 平时多给她以关爱, -冒一冒泡- ♂ (37 bytes) () 07/05/2007 postreply 10:40:57

• 1.岁数差那么多玩不到一起 2. 感情要慢慢建立 -糖火烧- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/05/2007 postreply 10:55:43

• 老二最大的用处就是给老大做伴儿,要我是你－就不生了 -happyliveincanada- ♀ (140 bytes) () 07/05/2007 postreply 11:10:56

• 你几个孩子？ -家园- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/05/2007 postreply 11:19:14

• 有些人要老大时太年轻，没完全体会到养小孩的乐趣， -wine- ♀ (38 bytes) () 07/05/2007 postreply 11:19:18

• 终于发现我们的共同点了。 -Mom3- ♀ (52 bytes) () 07/05/2007 postreply 11:39:19

• 我发贴都是百忙中瞄一眼发，经常是既没看全别人的贴子， -wine- ♀ (40 bytes) () 07/05/2007 postreply 11:46:39

• 没有，我们都是忙中偷闲，没有大干一场的准备。 -Mom3- ♀ (18 bytes) () 07/05/2007 postreply 11:53:00

• 有的是钱另当别论啊。 -happyliveincanada- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/05/2007 postreply 11:26:02