做手工,一定要和样本一摸一样。
家长不能怕他生气就总顺他的意,也不能反应太激烈。
做手工,就故意给他和样本不同颜色的纸张,和他说,我们今天要做不同与样本的,要创新一下。
穿衣服,可不可以,Monday wear green, Tuesday wear blue. Variety is spice to one's life.
Praise /reward him when he shared with his friends. Rather than only criticize him when he is not sharing. THis is called positive reinforcement.
最后,换个角度看,你的孩子很坚韧,不达目的不罢休。 用在对的地方,可是很好的。我会告诉他,妈妈喜欢你的坚持,讨论一下用在何处比较棒。有时我们需要灵活,否则是给自己找苦头。