这让我感觉好多了

本帖于 2013-12-10 11:03:32 时间, 由普通用户 小活 编辑

开了一上午会,回来看到肉肉老师来的邮件。
上次在校车上,肉肉和小朋友动手了,原因是一个叫Mohammad的小朋友先打了他。
回来和姥姥,姥爷一说,姥爷马上说:"趁肉肉没在家,我得表扬这孩子,这明明是反恐英雄嘛!"

肉肉回家后,我也没太说他,只是很平静地问了问具体情况,告诉他以后不要动手打人。
说实话,我心疼得不得了,就差补一句,别人要是打你,咱也不是好欺负的。:)
得让对方记得,下次不敢再动手!

From: J
Sent: Wednesday, December 04, 2013 3:17 PM
To: 小活
Subject: 肉肉

小活,
肉肉 had some difficulty on the bus this morning.   He told me that another student, Mohammad, slapped him on the face many times on the bus.  肉肉 said he tried telling him to stop and he wouldn’t so he punched him in the stomach.   Both boys spent some time talking to 校长, and missed all of their recesses today.  This is behavior that we cannot tolerate at school or on the bus to school.  I am sending home a pink not e for you to sign after having a discussion with 肉肉.   This note is usually used for classroom behavior, but it will be helpful for 肉肉 to have something to return to me. 

Thank you,
J

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Ms. J

Thanks a lot for sending email to let me know the situation in prompt time. I was very worried yesterday because I totally agree with you that the bully behavior cannot be tolerated at school or on the bus to school.

I hope you have also contacted Mohammad’s parents to let Mohammad know slapping someone’s face many times is disrespectful to human being. Especially 肉肉 tried telling him to stop. This is not 肉肉’s fault, he was just trying to defend himself. I hope this won’t happen again.

I think this is a good lesson for my son too. We talked to him seriously to let him know never initiate bully behavior, also next time if anyone did something wrong, try to report to you or 校长 first before he takes any defense action on his own. This is school rule, we should follow.

肉肉 is such a little kid, he is very happy to go to school every day, we hope this event won’t affect his feeling for school. Please understand my concern and I greatly appreciate your care for 肉肉.

Best Regards

小活

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小活,
肉肉 seems happy and is doing well at school.  I just wanted to check with you to make sure he is feeling fine about things after the incident on the bus.  肉肉 and Mohammad seem to be fine with their friendship in class as well.  You had also asked if Mohammad’s parents were contacted.  Yes, I always contact all students’ parents when they are involved in something as this was.  Mohammad also spent some additional time with  校长.

Please let me know how you feel 肉肉 is doing.

Thank you,
J


又开始忙工作了,忙里偷下闲,提前祝70的亲们圣诞快乐!!:D

 

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my reply -ghost_in_shell- 给 ghost_in_shell 发送悄悄话 ghost_in_shell 的博客首页 (503 bytes) () 12/10/2013 postreply 11:27:07

哇!小鬼是个美眉,重要发现 -万枫- 给 万枫 发送悄悄话 万枫 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/10/2013 postreply 11:35:41

反恐英雄! -万枫- 给 万枫 发送悄悄话 万枫 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/10/2013 postreply 11:36:37

呵呵,支持! -梵芯- 给 梵芯 发送悄悄话 梵芯 的博客首页 (194 bytes) () 12/10/2013 postreply 12:20:12

毛主席的战略思想学的好!打的赢就打,打不赢就。。。。告状 -pacsqc- 给 pacsqc 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 12/10/2013 postreply 12:49:42

哈哈,问题是这是没有受过毛主席思想教育的人说的。。。 -梵芯- 给 梵芯 发送悄悄话 梵芯 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/10/2013 postreply 13:05:02

你可以客气地问一下老师:Mohammad做错事,学校和老师的责任是什么。 -舞女- 给 舞女 发送悄悄话 舞女 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/10/2013 postreply 13:52:53

顶你家肉肉,打死默罕默德。也。 -星星- 给 星星 发送悄悄话 星星 的博客首页 (6 bytes) () 12/10/2013 postreply 15:35:14

星星要小心人家穆斯林哥们在你家撂炸弹啥地。 -pacsqc- 给 pacsqc 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 12/10/2013 postreply 21:29:12

小活处理的真好! -Bluebell- 给 Bluebell 发送悄悄话 Bluebell 的博客首页 (199 bytes) () 12/10/2013 postreply 18:24:00

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