1."死了以后才试图了解对方，然后才发现对方其实跟自己理解的完全是不一样的人。" no, she is the same person, he got most of it, but just one point. does it happen between all the time? i thingk so.
2.她试图和鲁南跳舞，肌肤缠绵处，鲁南却完全没有感受到，来了一句“你想干嘛？”。i agree that he is boring sometime, but by the end of the dance, he felt the affection from trudi, they kissed with passion.
3.鲁南古怪的脾气和杜丽一味的偏心确实与子女的表现有因果关系。yes, i agree. it was something in my mind but i could not express it, you made it clear.
4.孩子长大后就是社会的人，不光是我自己的人，要考虑他们所处的社会关系. i can not agree with you more on this point.
