I know we can't be perfect parents but we try.

At least help the child out instead of waiting to see him cry his eyes out. Crying is his only way to signal "SOS".
As we grope our way in learning to be a parent, there will be errors that we make. The bottom line for the parents is we try our best and not neglect the child on purpose.

Thanks for all the questions which give me the chance to mend all the holes. : )