1) 漂亮(pretty)和有吸引力(attractive)不是一个概念.
2) 一般女孩都可以attractive;Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
3) Meanwhile, 30 is the new 20, 40 is the new 30; so age is less of a factor now compared with 30-40 years ago.
4) 对同样智商的人来说,有些人花更多的时间提高学业事业,有些人花更多的时间make self physically attractive (not just 穿着打扮 but also gym time etc, all of which can have a postive impact in one's life too).
5) 注重学业事业 vs 注重穿着打扮身材等等 不完全互相排斥。