问问孩子，他想怎么处理。如果说不知道，这么多建议，他认为那个好，利弊是什么。

 

In teachers' mind, your child's face and name should be associated with more good feelings, less problems/difficulties.  The return on such feelings cannot be measured in dollars.

It's better the child make a friend than an enemy.  Will they be classmates in the same high school?