"无法像大陆发财的老同学那样提供给孩子的就业和创业帮助"?

If our children are strong, they can take care of their own career development most of the time.

If parents can't help, then we need to make more efforts developing our career.

We need and must help the Chinese students from mainland/Taiwan/Asia.  Overall it would make us stronger. 

I am reading a book on Indian American these days ...... and how they are doing so well in US