talk to him and respect him too

child should bring the happiness to the family, but if your hu*****and does not want it now, and you do not care so much (as I understand), why do you want to force it? just switch your positions: if you insist to do abrotion, and your hu*****and against it, do you like it? I have seen so many unwanted children in this world (sorry god and his followers), is it fair for them? talk to your hu*****and, money is not the biggest problem here. you will have harder life than have one child, but many people survived. I also knew several couples did abortion at certain time period, and have one or more kids later in life. so, abortion with a doctor is not dangers. I just really hate to see another woman ask for divorce advice in a year or two. please talk to each other, and find the best solution for both of you.