You ask me the better way to raise ABC girls? well, one is being deep, down to earth, not chasing money, luxury, and being snobbish.
Second, being active and pursuing. not using you own ways of dating :-) You cannot worry about they don't date in high school on one side, then worry they went over bottomline on the other side. If you do the consequences is good boys they like are grabbed, and your daughters being grabbed by who ever have courage and thick skin :-)
easy said than down....