一个Sad 的消息,多与你的孩子交流不要一味的都是学习。

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www.jhunewsletter.com/2014/10/16/sophomore-dies-in-apparent-suicide-94177/

Sophomore dies in apparent suicide
By JACK BARTHOLET
Published: October 16th, 2014
Views: 1,489 views
 

Sophomore Yangkai Li died at an apartment building near campus on Wednesday afternoon, Vice Provost for Student Affairs Kevin Shollenberger and Dean of Student Life Terry Martinez announced in an email to the community late Wednesday night.

According to the Baltimore City Police Department (BPD), the death was an apparent suicide.

“We are investigating a suicide,” BPD Spokesperson Detective Jeremy Silbert said. “At this time, it appears to be a suicide.”

BPD received word of the incident and responded at 2:28 p.m.

“When police arrived, they found the body of a 20-year-old who appeared to have jumped from the building,” Silbert said. He stated that the address of the building was 105 W. 39th St. The Broadview Apartments complex is listed at that address.

Upon arriving at the scene, police spoke to witnesses, including members of the Baltimore Fire Department (BFD) who had watched the incident occur. Silbert stated that Li did access the roof of the building. Silbert was unaware of the accessibility of the roof or how Li may have gained entry.

Under Maryland state law, an autopsy is required for any death by suicide.

“The body was transported to the Medical Examiner’s Office where it will undergo an autopsy,” Silbert said.

Li was a student in the School of Arts & Sciences majoring in physics. According to his Facebook profile, he was from Guangzhou, China and attended the Woodberry Forest School, a boarding school in Woodberry Forest, Va.

The announcement of the death to the Hopkins community was sent through JHBroadcast at 11:35 p.m. In the email, Shollenberger and Martinez wrote that the BPD determined that there is no reason to suspect Li’s death was the result of a crime, but they did not reveal the circumstances surrounding the death.

“Police, who investigated as a matter of standard procedure, have told us there is no evidence of any crime,” Shollenberger and Martinez wrote.

University Spokesperson and Director of Communications Dennis O’Shea refused to further clarify the circumstances of the death, other than to repeat that no evidence of a crime was found.

O’Shea said that numerous University officials have been involved in the situation.

The email from Shollenberger and Martinez indicated that the school administration has notified Li’s family.

“We have been in contact tonight with members of Yangkai’s family, and are offering them whatever support or assistance the University can provide at this most difficult moment,” Shollenberger and Martinez wrote.

When asked if Li left any sort of note, Silbert stated that BPD has “not received any information about a [suicide] note.”

According to Li’s Facebook profile, he maintained a publically available blog on WordPress, titled, “wsad-yk-pblog,” in which he wrote three entries.

In his first entry, written on Sept. 20, he referred to what appear to be health problems.

“After some period of sleeplessness and anxiety, my mind at least looks like my own again, you know, with some medication. Certainly, I am much less attentive to the outside world now. Honestly I just wanna be a plain, normal guy, you know, but perhaps that’s not the reality, right?” Li wrote. “The most I could do is just to have an everyday life, you see, going to classes, doing homework, get around the campus. Finding joy everyday may not be as easy as it goes… But for me I believe things are getting back where it should be, and that might be just what’s needed.”

Regarding the aftermath of the tragedy, Shollenberger and Martinez called for unity and supportiveness.

“We know that all Yangkai’s friends, classmates and teachers, and anyone who knew him, will be shocked to learn of this great loss to our Johns Hopkins community. We urge you to rely on one another, your families, and University resources for support,” Shollenberger and Martinez wrote.

O’Shea affirmed that he anticipates a memorial service will also take place in the near future.

“I’m sure that when we have a chance to arrange something, there will be a ceremony with his friends,” O’Shea said late Wednesday night. “We’ve only been in touch with his family tonight. Some of them are in China.”

Shollenberger and Martinez encouraged students to seek emotional support as necessary from the Counseling Center, Campus Ministries, Resident Advisors (RAs) and other Residential Life staff.

“Please be especially vigilant in coming days for opportunities to be helpful to and supportive of each other, and to encourage those who could benefit from the resources we’ve listed,” Shollenberger and Martinez wrote.

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是今年特别多,还是大家开始重视了?感觉最近几个月就看到很多。 -soundofsilence- 给 soundofsilence 发送悄悄话 soundofsilence 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 10/16/2014 postreply 09:00:54

我是刚收到学校的email. 心理很难受。总觉得是不是现在的孩子生活太好了,心理的承受能力很低。 -bellyn- 给 bellyn 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 10/16/2014 postreply 09:06:38

不是太好了, 而是压力太大了。 -茶园15- 给 茶园15 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 10/16/2014 postreply 09:13:39

我也同感。其实这一代活的不容易。 -soundofsilence- 给 soundofsilence 发送悄悄话 soundofsilence 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 10/16/2014 postreply 09:14:12

自杀背后的原因错综复杂 -jiandany- 给 jiandany 发送悄悄话 jiandany 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 10/16/2014 postreply 09:14:22

是。压力可以有很多的来源。 -soundofsilence- 给 soundofsilence 发送悄悄话 soundofsilence 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 10/16/2014 postreply 09:16:57

生活好也是原因之一。压力被上升了 -五月草- 给 五月草 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 10/16/2014 postreply 10:41:31

最近出事的亚裔很多。 -茶园15- 给 茶园15 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 10/16/2014 postreply 09:14:38

一个原因是亚裔学生人数越来越多,也可能有其它的因素。 -soundofsilence- 给 soundofsilence 发送悄悄话 soundofsilence 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 10/16/2014 postreply 09:16:32

孩子越大越要重视心理健康,我家昨天回家,花了半个小时和我聊PSAT -jiandany- 给 jiandany 发送悄悄话 jiandany 的博客首页 (153 bytes) () 10/16/2014 postreply 09:11:27

不管在什么时候,还可以幽默一下,问题就不大。 -soundofsilence- 给 soundofsilence 发送悄悄话 soundofsilence 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 10/16/2014 postreply 09:14:41

不见得。 俺村自杀的孩子据说特幽默。 -茶园15- 给 茶园15 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 10/16/2014 postreply 09:18:20

哇!那看看还有什么能帮着鉴定一下。 -soundofsilence- 给 soundofsilence 发送悄悄话 soundofsilence 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 10/16/2014 postreply 09:21:18

难, 最近大学里自杀的华裔都多才多艺的, 想不通。 -茶园15- 给 茶园15 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 10/16/2014 postreply 09:24:07

感觉这种太完美的,其实容易出问题。 -soundofsilence- 给 soundofsilence 发送悄悄话 soundofsilence 的博客首页 (30 bytes) () 10/16/2014 postreply 09:26:10

从我孩子那里得到的信息,大概有很多孩子的才艺是父母“逼迫”的结果,不是真正的enjoy -jiandany- 给 jiandany 发送悄悄话 jiandany 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 10/16/2014 postreply 09:35:54

这样的父母,对其它方面要求也高。所以孩子的压力比别人也大。 -soundofsilence- 给 soundofsilence 发送悄悄话 soundofsilence 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 10/16/2014 postreply 09:38:24

可我也真的不能理解都10年级的大男生了,还被家长逼迫指定去参加这个club或是那个club,能心情好吗? -jiandany- 给 jiandany 发送悄悄话 jiandany 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 10/16/2014 postreply 09:44:48

父母如果知道自己的不能,其实事情就好办多了。 -soundofsilence- 给 soundofsilence 发送悄悄话 soundofsilence 的博客首页 (282 bytes) () 10/16/2014 postreply 09:47:33

Robin Williams 幽默吗? -壮士- 给 壮士 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 10/16/2014 postreply 09:19:30

他是职业,不是真的有这个心,只是用这个才能谋生而已。 -soundofsilence- 给 soundofsilence 发送悄悄话 soundofsilence 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 10/16/2014 postreply 09:20:43

不一样的,心里苦,还得去逗别人笑,岂不更苦,所以他的抑郁症那么严重 -jiandany- 给 jiandany 发送悄悄话 jiandany 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 10/16/2014 postreply 09:29:45

是。很同情他,他做别的可能还好点。 -soundofsilence- 给 soundofsilence 发送悄悄话 soundofsilence 的博客首页 (186 bytes) () 10/16/2014 postreply 09:31:53

对啊,多交流,多笑笑,孩子也就愿意和你说他的事情。我也是在不断的学习和成长去与孩子交流。 -bellyn- 给 bellyn 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 10/16/2014 postreply 09:21:32

其实孩子还是很需要父母的,只是我们有时候不够理解他们 -jiandany- 给 jiandany 发送悄悄话 jiandany 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 10/16/2014 postreply 09:38:49

对啊,多交流,多笑笑,孩子也就愿意和你说他的事情。我也是在不断的学习和成长去与孩子交流。 -bellyn- 给 bellyn 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 10/16/2014 postreply 09:21:32

她有2个亚裔男孩朋友,学校没事就和她分享趣味体育视频,记得一个是英国的滚cheese比赛 -jiandany- 给 jiandany 发送悄悄话 jiandany 的博客首页 (70 bytes) () 10/16/2014 postreply 09:26:18

我儿子有时候也给我看这些,很滑稽的。 -soundofsilence- 给 soundofsilence 发送悄悄话 soundofsilence 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 10/16/2014 postreply 09:30:13

孩子愿意给我分享,我再忙都停下来先和她一起看,毕竟对他们来说无忧无虑的童年真的过去了 -jiandany- 给 jiandany 发送悄悄话 jiandany 的博客首页 (63 bytes) () 10/16/2014 postreply 09:34:09

是啊。能亲密和孩子一起做事情的时间已经进入倒计时了。 -soundofsilence- 给 soundofsilence 发送悄悄话 soundofsilence 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 10/16/2014 postreply 09:35:19

我一直不太主张国内的同学们把他们的孩子送到国外来读高中,其实这段时间与自己的父母在一起同样很重要。青春期。 -bellyn- 给 bellyn 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 10/16/2014 postreply 09:43:23

我不理解,自己的孩子也坚决不让早离家。以后的日子长着呢, -soundofsilence- 给 soundofsilence 发送悄悄话 soundofsilence 的博客首页 (24 bytes) () 10/16/2014 postreply 09:45:04

这是位小留吧 -violinpiano- 给 violinpiano 发送悄悄话 (42 bytes) () 10/16/2014 postreply 09:47:58

好像是的。 -bellyn- 给 bellyn 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 10/16/2014 postreply 10:07:36

他的健康出了问题。人在这时最脆弱。要能得及时关怀就好了。 -RYYC- 给 RYYC 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 10/16/2014 postreply 10:14:01

对的,要有人关怀在这时候,情况就大不一样了。 -bellyn- 给 bellyn 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 10/16/2014 postreply 10:18:19

不要忽视药物副作用的可能性 -konglongah- 给 konglongah 发送悄悄话 (447 bytes) () 10/16/2014 postreply 11:12:07

鼎,用药要小心。否则,适得其反 -bellyn- 给 bellyn 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 10/16/2014 postreply 11:19:44

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