hehe, it is going to be ok

my daughter is 4yr and 4 month old and she does her own hair sometimes (her day takes her to school in the morning). We are so proud of her. She can do one or two pony tails by herself and put some hair clips.
I think your girl should be encouraged instead of being complained. Sooner or later, she has to make decision on her own. After all hair style is not such a big deal at her age. Maybe you should let her make her own decision on this NOT SO important ...