代表Class 2012大学毕业生家长给子女的恭贺信

本帖于 2012-04-19 08:29:51 时间, 由普通用户 SwiperTheFox 编辑

 

((不愿意“被”代表的请留下标记。同意“被”代表的可以考贝,不追究版权责任。六万五的工资是网上流传的美国理功科大学毕业生拿到的工资的中位数字,不包括年终奖金等。女儿拿到的不是这个数字。)

Dear XXX,

Congratulations to you for the big step in your life! Your mom and I have been waiting for this since you left home for college in the summer of 2008. You should feel proud of yourself for the hard work during your college career. 

While you are dreaming your freedom in the near future, I would like to discuss a little bit of your personal finance situation once you start your new job. My only purpose for this discussion is to make you ready for the real world.

Your starting salary is about 65K annually. Uncle Sam will count all pennies, and they are subjected to Social Security tax (also called as payroll tax): 65000*6.2%=4030. ( Currently it is 4.2% because of stimulation for economy, normally it is 6.2%.)

MA  income tax: (65000-8000)*6%=3420. (I remember the MA deduction is 8K per person, and the tax rate is 5.95%, if not higher.)

You federal tax is estimated as following:

Assuming you put 6% income(3900 dollars) into your 401k to get all match-up benefit, your W-2 form will show your annual income: 65000-65000*6%=61100

On your 1040EZ form, the total of your standard deduction and per-capital deduction is about: 5700+3300=9000. Therefore, your taxable income is 61100-9000=52100.

Your federal tax: 9144 for single. (Congratulations, you are in 25% tax rate bracket, higher than dad and mom.:).)

(For single, taxable income between 35350-85650 is for 25% rate. I am sure you will have AMT to deal if you take itemized deduction. LOL.)

This is what you will get from your pay check annually: 65000-4030-3420-3900-9144=44506, i.e. 44506/12=3708 per month.

If you consider Roth IRA, which you should because of its long-term tax benefit, that is 5000 annually, and monthly 416. So your monthly available income is: 3708-416=3292. 

 

Not bad. Your mom and I have been living on a budget of about 4000 dollars per month during last 4 years, and we managed to pay mortgage and your brother's school cost. See, countryside is a better place to raise a family, and your mom and I made a right choice to move from Boston to the countryside in Illinois.

Enjoy your poor city-girl dream. Don't feel depressed if you could not come out with the money to buy ticket to fly back to see dad and mom. Your mom and I are willing to buy you ticket, and we will keep your room as it was when you were home, and prepare delicious fish and organic vegetable when you are tired and want to have a nap at dad and mom's side.

Love,

mom and dad

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多谢两位! -A-mao- 给 A-mao 发送悄悄话 A-mao 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 04/19/2012 postreply 06:18:14

感动ing。恭喜阿猫 -诃诃- 给 诃诃 发送悄悄话 诃诃 的博客首页 (23 bytes) () 04/18/2012 postreply 20:01:49

离花街有5小时车程。:)。 -A-mao- 给 A-mao 发送悄悄话 A-mao 的博客首页 (37 bytes) () 04/19/2012 postreply 06:19:21

DC? -AprilToMay- 给 AprilToMay 发送悄悄话 AprilToMay 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 04/19/2012 postreply 06:27:43

Congratulations! -AprilToMay- 给 AprilToMay 发送悄悄话 AprilToMay 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 04/19/2012 postreply 06:28:11

Thanks! -A-mao- 给 A-mao 发送悄悄话 A-mao 的博客首页 (20 bytes) () 04/19/2012 postreply 06:29:42

工作定了? 恭喜! -rockingchair- 给 rockingchair 发送悄悄话 rockingchair 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 04/19/2012 postreply 06:35:18

Yeah, thanks! -A-mao- 给 A-mao 发送悄悄话 A-mao 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 04/19/2012 postreply 06:48:22

boston? -lucky8910- 给 lucky8910 发送悄悄话 lucky8910 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 04/19/2012 postreply 08:34:32

不远。 -A-mao- 给 A-mao 发送悄悄话 A-mao 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 04/19/2012 postreply 10:25:00

congratulations. 阿猫对个人财务还真是有热诚. -worriedmom1- 给 worriedmom1 发送悄悄话 worriedmom1 的博客首页 (160 bytes) () 04/18/2012 postreply 20:07:47

她promised是chip in。我在想这个chip可能是micro-chip。 -A-mao- 给 A-mao 发送悄悄话 A-mao 的博客首页 (162 bytes) () 04/19/2012 postreply 06:22:41

大婚的日子都定了?:) -rockingchair- 给 rockingchair 发送悄悄话 rockingchair 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 04/19/2012 postreply 06:40:12

I wish.:(. -A-mao- 给 A-mao 发送悄悄话 A-mao 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 04/19/2012 postreply 06:48:05

面包会有的, 牛奶也会有的 :) -rockingchair- 给 rockingchair 发送悄悄话 rockingchair 的博客首页 (57 bytes) () 04/19/2012 postreply 06:54:13

IT吧。我还不详细了解呢。:(. -A-mao- 给 A-mao 发送悄悄话 A-mao 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 04/19/2012 postreply 07:03:27

IT是很热... -rockingchair- 给 rockingchair 发送悄悄话 rockingchair 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 04/19/2012 postreply 07:07:17

祝贺,恭喜阿毛,惭愧的说,俺从来都搞不清自己一年花费多少,要理理帐了 -riahserf425- 给 riahserf425 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 04/18/2012 postreply 20:12:18

富姐都有人替她数钱的。多谢。:)。 -A-mao- 给 A-mao 发送悄悄话 A-mao 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 04/19/2012 postreply 06:23:36

俺家LD博士毕业的起薪是六万!!!美国中产阶级家庭的平均数是4.3万,如果没记错的话。她小丫头6.5万,幸运啊 -爱河鱼饵- 给 爱河鱼饵 发送悄悄话 爱河鱼饵 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 04/18/2012 postreply 20:24:12

你看,老革命来了。:)。 -A-mao- 给 A-mao 发送悄悄话 A-mao 的博客首页 (123 bytes) () 04/19/2012 postreply 06:25:45

恭喜。以前有个傅雷家书,今天有个老猫家书。我在想13年后我怎么给儿子写这封信。 -melody2010- 给 melody2010 发送悄悄话 melody2010 的博客首页 (216 bytes) () 04/18/2012 postreply 20:42:47

哈哈哈哈,我估计也得这么写。 -牛放王小二- 给 牛放王小二 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 04/18/2012 postreply 21:09:44

傅雷家书是阳春白雪,我农民怎么能比? -A-mao- 给 A-mao 发送悄悄话 A-mao 的博客首页 (63 bytes) () 04/19/2012 postreply 06:28:30

哈哈,阿毛,你也太小看我了吧? -melody2010- 给 melody2010 发送悄悄话 melody2010 的博客首页 (569 bytes) () 04/19/2012 postreply 17:47:12

cong -郑多多妈妈- 给 郑多多妈妈 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 04/18/2012 postreply 20:45:19

多谢! -A-mao- 给 A-mao 发送悄悄话 A-mao 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 04/19/2012 postreply 06:29:00

恭喜!恭喜! -雾里看花123- 给 雾里看花123 发送悄悄话 雾里看花123 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 04/18/2012 postreply 20:47:59

多谢! -A-mao- 给 A-mao 发送悄悄话 A-mao 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 04/19/2012 postreply 06:29:57

恭喜!经济独立是人生最重要的里程碑之一。 -lucky8910- 给 lucky8910 发送悄悄话 lucky8910 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 04/18/2012 postreply 20:50:03

嗯。但昨天给爹爹说,可能还需要爹爹一张支票。 -A-mao- 给 A-mao 发送悄悄话 A-mao 的博客首页 (22 bytes) () 04/19/2012 postreply 06:31:24

恭喜阿猫! -钱串儿- 给 钱串儿 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 04/18/2012 postreply 20:56:21

多谢多谢! -A-mao- 给 A-mao 发送悄悄话 A-mao 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 04/19/2012 postreply 06:31:53

恭贺! -eomom- 给 eomom 发送悄悄话 eomom 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 04/18/2012 postreply 21:03:39

多谢! -A-mao- 给 A-mao 发送悄悄话 A-mao 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 04/19/2012 postreply 06:32:12

真是个好爹。要向你学习。 -牛放王小二- 给 牛放王小二 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 04/18/2012 postreply 21:08:25

我快成雷锋了。:)。多谢! -A-mao- 给 A-mao 发送悄悄话 A-mao 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 04/19/2012 postreply 06:33:03

你又可以 -蓝调- 给 蓝调 发送悄悄话 蓝调 的博客首页 (278 bytes) () 04/18/2012 postreply 21:12:23

最近喝得比较多。家里客人不断。 -A-mao- 给 A-mao 发送悄悄话 A-mao 的博客首页 (240 bytes) () 04/19/2012 postreply 06:39:07

恭贺老大将毕业! 那老二呢? :) -网恋无罪- 给 网恋无罪 发送悄悄话 网恋无罪 的博客首页 (63 bytes) () 04/18/2012 postreply 21:26:14

多谢!好久不见。 -A-mao- 给 A-mao 发送悄悄话 A-mao 的博客首页 (98 bytes) () 04/19/2012 postreply 06:40:48

恭喜阿猫!贺喜小猫女! -laoyangdelp- 给 laoyangdelp 发送悄悄话 laoyangdelp 的博客首页 (61 bytes) () 04/18/2012 postreply 21:41:11

哈哈,先让她醒醒。:)。多谢! -A-mao- 给 A-mao 发送悄悄话 A-mao 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 04/19/2012 postreply 06:41:42

谁说的大学生起薪平均能有6.5万?太高了。文科3,4万,工科也就5万多不错了。 -cafeaulait- 给 cafeaulait 发送悄悄话 (56 bytes) () 04/18/2012 postreply 22:01:32

说的是中位值么,就有50%比这个高,50%比这个低。 -A-mao- 给 A-mao 发送悄悄话 A-mao 的博客首页 (13 bytes) () 04/19/2012 postreply 06:42:53

AGI is 61100, not 52100 -beachlver- 给 beachlver 发送悄悄话 beachlver 的博客首页 (272 bytes) () 04/19/2012 postreply 04:13:39

Thanks for your correction and nice words! -A-mao- 给 A-mao 发送悄悄话 A-mao 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 04/19/2012 postreply 06:44:37

good girl, way to go! -iMe- 给 iMe 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 04/19/2012 postreply 05:29:02

Thank you very much! -A-mao- 给 A-mao 发送悄悄话 A-mao 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 04/19/2012 postreply 06:44:56

Congrats! but maybe for once you should spare -Crystaldowns- 给 Crystaldowns 发送悄悄话 Crystaldowns 的博客首页 (82 bytes) () 04/19/2012 postreply 06:41:29

Thanks! -A-mao- 给 A-mao 发送悄悄话 A-mao 的博客首页 (236 bytes) () 04/19/2012 postreply 06:47:29

Just have some faith in her, she will learn her lessons sooner -Crystaldowns- 给 Crystaldowns 发送悄悄话 Crystaldowns 的博客首页 (208 bytes) () 04/19/2012 postreply 06:50:53

We do tax return together for many years, -A-mao- 给 A-mao 发送悄悄话 A-mao 的博客首页 (168 bytes) () 04/19/2012 postreply 07:06:08

恭喜你女儿大学毕业找到好工作!! -happyma66- 给 happyma66 发送悄悄话 happyma66 的博客首页 (41 bytes) () 04/19/2012 postreply 06:53:51

多谢!Personal finance差不多可以放手了。 -A-mao- 给 A-mao 发送悄悄话 A-mao 的博客首页 (218 bytes) () 04/19/2012 postreply 07:09:26

Congratulations! Wonderful letter and best wishes to your daught -sunshinecity- 给 sunshinecity 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 04/19/2012 postreply 07:16:17

Thanks a lot! -A-mao- 给 A-mao 发送悄悄话 A-mao 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 04/19/2012 postreply 07:17:37

恭喜恭喜! -笑哥- 给 笑哥 发送悄悄话 笑哥 的博客首页 (162 bytes) () 04/19/2012 postreply 07:33:08

多谢笑哥!好久不见。 -A-mao- 给 A-mao 发送悄悄话 A-mao 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 04/19/2012 postreply 10:21:06

WOW! 恭喜,恭喜:) -事事无为- 给 事事无为 发送悄悄话 事事无为 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 04/19/2012 postreply 08:30:04

多谢多谢! -A-mao- 给 A-mao 发送悄悄话 A-mao 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 04/19/2012 postreply 10:21:46

这篇满是数字的信,我咋看得热泪盈眶?!恭喜阿毛! -凤姐虎弟- 给 凤姐虎弟 发送悄悄话 凤姐虎弟 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 04/19/2012 postreply 08:32:40

存好啊,等以后女儿大学毕业时用。:)。多谢! -A-mao- 给 A-mao 发送悄悄话 A-mao 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 04/19/2012 postreply 10:23:01

祝贺女儿开始人生新一页,祝贺老爸完成一个人生大任务! -crab_tree- 给 crab_tree 发送悄悄话 crab_tree 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 04/19/2012 postreply 09:38:29

是是是,完成了一大任务,还有一个在等着呢。:(。多谢! -A-mao- 给 A-mao 发送悄悄话 A-mao 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 04/19/2012 postreply 10:24:08

恭贺老猫和猫女! 不管潮涨潮落,有平常心如老猫般即是胜者 -weston- 给 weston 发送悄悄话 weston 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 04/19/2012 postreply 11:14:56

哈哈,潮起潮落看多了,自然也就心平气和了。 -Morning3evening4- 给 Morning3evening4 发送悄悄话 Morning3evening4 的博客首页 (46 bytes) () 04/19/2012 postreply 13:26:01

GXGX,现在就转给女儿去看,提起做准备,今年学校找工作行情如何? -seeds- 给 seeds 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 04/19/2012 postreply 12:09:52

听说CS还可以。等我有空再码字。多谢! -Morning3evening4- 给 Morning3evening4 发送悄悄话 Morning3evening4 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 04/19/2012 postreply 13:27:19

恭喜阿猫。一眨眼就毕业了? -enjoyer- 给 enjoyer 发送悄悄话 (41 bytes) () 04/19/2012 postreply 12:12:03

高?我还担心她养不活自己呢。:)。多谢! -Morning3evening4- 给 Morning3evening4 发送悄悄话 Morning3evening4 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 04/19/2012 postreply 13:28:13

恭喜恭喜!时间过的真快! : ) -执著2011- 给 执著2011 发送悄悄话 执著2011 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 04/19/2012 postreply 12:13:47

多谢!你儿子写作好,我这个你就别拷贝了。:)。 -Morning3evening4- 给 Morning3evening4 发送悄悄话 Morning3evening4 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 04/19/2012 postreply 13:29:12

感动!一封娓娓道来,尽显父爱的信!恭喜女儿毕业了。 -2horse- 给 2horse 发送悄悄话 2horse 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 04/19/2012 postreply 12:30:02

多谢多谢! -Morning3evening4- 给 Morning3evening4 发送悄悄话 Morning3evening4 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 04/19/2012 postreply 13:29:46

恭喜恭喜!!!时间过得真快~~~ -Rvlh- 给 Rvlh 发送悄悄话 Rvlh 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 04/20/2012 postreply 05:07:19

真好。深有同感。 -enjoylife123456- 给 enjoylife123456 发送悄悄话 (173 bytes) () 04/20/2012 postreply 06:22:23

顶好文章! --古谜-- 给 -古谜- 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 04/20/2012 postreply 07:25:30

beautifully written! Thanks! -pacsqc- 给 pacsqc 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 04/20/2012 postreply 15:12:16

羡慕啊,女儿经济上独立了,还可以给你买点东西孝敬你们。 -亮亮妈妈- 给 亮亮妈妈 发送悄悄话 亮亮妈妈 的博客首页 (29 bytes) () 04/21/2012 postreply 05:57:53

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