看大家对"GIFTED"的讨论感觉大家老讲GIFTED,其实不了解GIFTED孩子:)

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我以前看过我们这个学区的网站,学到了一些东西.给大家分享一下

1.首先,GIFTED <> HIGH ACHIEVER.摘一段:
"Gifted children have an internal drive to KNOW things. Unfortunately, their interests don’t always coincide with what their teachers are teaching. Gifted children tend not to respond to the same rewards as high achieving students. High achievers are motivated by grades, pleasing adults, and competition. Some gifted children are also high achievers"

2.其次,THE MYTH ABOUT "GIFTED".摘一段:
"EnergyYou may have heard people say, “I want my child in the classroom with the gifted kids. They don’t have behavior problems.”This is a MYTH.
High achievers tend to have fewer behavior problems because theyare motivated by making adults happy and getting positive feedback from authority figures.
On the other hand, there are four traits that tend to get gifted people into trouble:
Intensity
Sensitivity
Multi-potentiality or Multi-stimulus
Excessive Energy"

3.上面四个特怔,造成GIFTED孩子们表现不同.摘一段:
"Sometimes these trouble traits lead parents to seek help for their children. They may appear to have symptoms of Attention Deficit Disorder (ADD) or Attention Deficit with Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD). Or they may appear to have symptoms of other psychological disorders.
It is important that the physician or psychologist working with your child understand gifted people, as it can be difficult to separate the characteristics of giftedness from the characteristics of some of these disorders."

4.Asynchronous Development in physical (P), cognitive (C), social (S), and emotional (E).摘一段:
"GiftedThe developmental rates of GT children are different. Their areas of development are out-of-sync. Many experts in Gifted Education call this the “hallmark of giftedness.”The students identified as GT in schools are usually cognitively gifted, so that is the area with the fastest rate of development. In addition, most gifted children’s emotional development is more rapid than their physical or social development
The out-of-sync (or asynchronous) development of gifted kids is an integral part of who they are and how they interact with the world. This is why they act like an adult at one moment and throw a temper tantrum the next. Different parts of them are different ages all at the same time"

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像判断自己的孩子是否天才并不难,只要做一个简单的测试 -千里一盏灯- 给 千里一盏灯 发送悄悄话 千里一盏灯 的博客首页 (202 bytes) () 12/03/2009 postreply 20:27:34

做天才看起来挺痛苦的,只做HIGH ACHIEVER不就理想了 -MMXIAO- 给 MMXIAO 发送悄悄话 MMXIAO 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/03/2009 postreply 20:31:31

Both parent and child have no choices. If I can choose, -blackmatter- 给 blackmatter 发送悄悄话 (114 bytes) () 12/03/2009 postreply 20:46:05

the only thing we can choose is to love our children -MMXIAO- 给 MMXIAO 发送悄悄话 MMXIAO 的博客首页 (18 bytes) () 12/03/2009 postreply 20:48:32

Hardest thing is accepting their defect and weakness. -blackmatter- 给 blackmatter 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 12/03/2009 postreply 20:50:52

true. I'll try my best:) -MMXIAO- 给 MMXIAO 发送悄悄话 MMXIAO 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/03/2009 postreply 20:54:54

不是太难呀。我总是自我检讨:“遗传”。于是,在原谅自己的同时,体谅孩子。 -N.- 给 N. 发送悄悄话 N. 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/03/2009 postreply 21:52:15

LOL. -N.- 给 N. 发送悄悄话 N. 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/03/2009 postreply 21:50:00

还忘了一点."GIFTED"绝对不是MORE MATURE(ABOVE AVERAGE) -MMXIAO- 给 MMXIAO 发送悄悄话 MMXIAO 的博客首页 (234 bytes) () 12/03/2009 postreply 20:40:37

Thanks a lot ! 明白了很多。 -婪妈- 给 婪妈 发送悄悄话 婪妈 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/03/2009 postreply 20:42:42

这里听说过的gifted孩子(即正式测过IQ的)好像都不闹腾:) -毕小珠-- 给 毕小珠- 发送悄悄话 (74 bytes) () 12/03/2009 postreply 20:41:59

gifted孩子他们还有特点是内向,不都闹.有些也是HIGH ACHIEVER. -MMXIAO- 给 MMXIAO 发送悄悄话 MMXIAO 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/03/2009 postreply 20:44:21

内向倒不一定,看佑佑:)觉得比较闹腾的通常是某种心理需要 -毕小珠-- 给 毕小珠- 发送悄悄话 (46 bytes) () 12/03/2009 postreply 20:48:21

跟其他孩子们一样,GIFTED孩子不都一样.我摘"INTROVERSION"这段: -MMXIAO- 给 MMXIAO 发送悄悄话 MMXIAO 的博客首页 (351 bytes) () 12/03/2009 postreply 20:50:47

忘了最牛的,西西:)应该也是比较懂事的孩子。 -毕小珠-- 给 毕小珠- 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 12/03/2009 postreply 20:45:29

俺家的从没测过IQ -soccermom- 给 soccermom 发送悄悄话 soccermom 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/03/2009 postreply 20:49:45

没测过也逃不掉:) -毕小珠-- 给 毕小珠- 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 12/03/2009 postreply 20:56:35

刚才看我儿子睡前一边蹦,一边神侃的,我突然想起来: -家有小学生- 给 家有小学生 发送悄悄话 (166 bytes) () 12/03/2009 postreply 21:17:55

一提到gifted, 大伙儿立刻来精神,跟贴蹭蹭地~~ -gingertea- 给 gingertea 发送悄悄话 gingertea 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/03/2009 postreply 21:31:51

那不,大家都望子成龙。 -家有小学生- 给 家有小学生 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 12/03/2009 postreply 21:34:22

更正: 大家家里都藏龙卧虎,就怕gifted 班老师有眼无珠:) -gingertea- 给 gingertea 发送悄悄话 gingertea 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/03/2009 postreply 21:35:56

关键是自己底气也不很足。都想求证一下:) -家有小学生- 给 家有小学生 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 12/03/2009 postreply 21:40:15

回复:看大家对"GIFTED"的讨论感觉大家老讲GIFTED,其实不了解GIFTED孩子:) -山山妈- 给 山山妈 发送悄悄话 (52 bytes) () 12/05/2009 postreply 20:36:07

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