My suggestion

If your mom can and wants to stay and your hu*****and has no objection, let her stay till the baby 2 or 3 years old and then put her to daycare. Talk to your hu*****and gently and firmly about it. I think your worry about your baby and your mother-in-law getting too close to her and brainwashing her.

Let your hu*****and take the baby to visit his mom , and you take your mom out and spend some time with her.

Don't say bad words about your mother in law and be a good wife to your hu*****and so your hu*****and can defend you in front of his mother like what you illustrated in one of the posts.

Sweet talk to your hu*****and and try to take care your small family to build strong bond. Let your hu*****and deal with your mother-in-law. But you hold on tight your own money. Drop the issue of 10K money unless you want divorce.

 

 

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• 回复：My suggestion -twinlobster- ♀ (1138 bytes) () 12/11/2012 postreply 08:44:16

• Just pretend that you didn't hear anything. -偶尔冒泡的鱼- ♀ (331 bytes) () 12/11/2012 postreply 08:54:02

• for my money -twinlobster- ♀ (446 bytes) () 12/11/2012 postreply 08:52:26

• Did he demand you to put $2500 into joint saving account? -偶尔冒泡的鱼- ♀ (184 bytes) () 12/11/2012 postreply 09:02:19

• he strongly suggested me to do that -twinlobster- ♀ (338 bytes) () 12/11/2012 postreply 09:10:49

• This sounds like troubled marriage -偶尔冒泡的鱼- ♀ (362 bytes) () 12/11/2012 postreply 09:33:24

• Thanks. Now I only maximize my 401k -twinlobster- ♀ (39 bytes) () 12/11/2012 postreply 09:36:31

• 为啥要给他妈和他兄弟4K一个月？太多了吧？ -是兔还是龙- ♀ (67 bytes) () 12/11/2012 postreply 10:06:06

• his 2nd brother is still in college -twinlobster- ♀ (599 bytes) () 12/11/2012 postreply 10:15:34

• I asked whether his 2nd bro can do some part time job -twinlobster- ♀ (198 bytes) () 12/11/2012 postreply 10:19:54

• 你老公这么照顾他的家庭，也算不错的人了。 -是兔还是龙- ♀ (415 bytes) () 12/11/2012 postreply 11:04:51

• he knew how much I am contributing -twinlobster- ♀ (1122 bytes) () 12/11/2012 postreply 11:22:52

• somehow I feel he is a person likes playing tricks -twinlobster- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/11/2012 postreply 11:30:02

• he bought a new car recently -twinlobster- ♀ (522 bytes) () 12/11/2012 postreply 11:37:04

• 要是一人一辆车的话，就不用纠结这个了。 -是兔还是龙- ♀ (37 bytes) () 12/11/2012 postreply 13:24:33

• he told me that he is buying a new car -twinlobster- ♀ (182 bytes) () 12/11/2012 postreply 13:31:13

• I am driving a 8 yrs old honda accord -twinlobster- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/11/2012 postreply 13:33:17

• 8年新的车也不算旧，新车已经买了，就别盯住不放了，下次家里再花大钱时你问清楚，一起做决定 -是兔还是龙- ♀ (1697 bytes) () 12/11/2012 postreply 14:09:45

• What does this mean? -偶尔冒泡的鱼- ♀ (613 bytes) () 12/11/2012 postreply 11:41:29

• 跟你说的意思差不多 -是兔还是龙- ♀ (3131 bytes) () 12/11/2012 postreply 13:23:26