回复：My suggestion

Let my mom take care baby till she is 2 or 3 and then send her to daycare

: My hu*****and is ok with that. He knew my mom is very nice person and takes good care of baby.

He knows that his mom has drinking problem (she gets herself drunk when she is not happy and cry loud. She has been like that for many years. She is not seeing doctor for that, my hu*****and never take her to dr for that either.)

But my hu*****and thinks that I make his mom worse because I fight with her, because I don't bear her. He thinks I am cold blood on her. (I treated her very nice untill she bully my mom.)

I am trying to be nice to my hu*****and. But it is hard. When I think about how bad his mom is, and a lot of time he is taking her side, sometimes he is so unreasonable, just like a mini version of my mother in law, so I get angry. It stops me from being nice to him. For example, I was thinking to cook a nice dinner for him when I was jogging in the gym. But when I am home, when I overheard that his mom is bad monthing me over the phone, and he is  not saying anthing objectively, I am upset again.

 

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• Just pretend that you didn't hear anything. -偶尔冒泡的鱼- ♀ (331 bytes) () 12/11/2012 postreply 08:54:02