for my money

now he is paying our rent 2k, utilities 100+, my cell phone 65, and car insurance 160 for both of us, and put 500 to our joint saving account. (This is after 2k for his brother and 2k for his mom per month).

I am paying the grocery 1000, health care insurance 500, and put 2500 to our joint saving.

Now roughly we are contributing about the same amount to our small family. Shall I stop the joing saving and save separatly?

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• Did he demand you to put $2500 into joint saving account? -偶尔冒泡的鱼- ♀ (184 bytes) () 12/11/2012 postreply 09:02:19

• he strongly suggested me to do that -twinlobster- ♀ (338 bytes) () 12/11/2012 postreply 09:10:49

• This sounds like troubled marriage -偶尔冒泡的鱼- ♀ (362 bytes) () 12/11/2012 postreply 09:33:24

• Thanks. Now I only maximize my 401k -twinlobster- ♀ (39 bytes) () 12/11/2012 postreply 09:36:31

• 为啥要给他妈和他兄弟4K一个月？太多了吧？ -是兔还是龙- ♀ (67 bytes) () 12/11/2012 postreply 10:06:06

• his 2nd brother is still in college -twinlobster- ♀ (599 bytes) () 12/11/2012 postreply 10:15:34

• I asked whether his 2nd bro can do some part time job -twinlobster- ♀ (198 bytes) () 12/11/2012 postreply 10:19:54

• 你老公这么照顾他的家庭，也算不错的人了。 -是兔还是龙- ♀ (415 bytes) () 12/11/2012 postreply 11:04:51

• he knew how much I am contributing -twinlobster- ♀ (1122 bytes) () 12/11/2012 postreply 11:22:52

• somehow I feel he is a person likes playing tricks -twinlobster- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/11/2012 postreply 11:30:02

• he bought a new car recently -twinlobster- ♀ (522 bytes) () 12/11/2012 postreply 11:37:04

• 要是一人一辆车的话，就不用纠结这个了。 -是兔还是龙- ♀ (37 bytes) () 12/11/2012 postreply 13:24:33

• he told me that he is buying a new car -twinlobster- ♀ (182 bytes) () 12/11/2012 postreply 13:31:13

• I am driving a 8 yrs old honda accord -twinlobster- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/11/2012 postreply 13:33:17

• 8年新的车也不算旧，新车已经买了，就别盯住不放了，下次家里再花大钱时你问清楚，一起做决定 -是兔还是龙- ♀ (1697 bytes) () 12/11/2012 postreply 14:09:45

• What does this mean? -偶尔冒泡的鱼- ♀ (613 bytes) () 12/11/2012 postreply 11:41:29

• 跟你说的意思差不多 -是兔还是龙- ♀ (3131 bytes) () 12/11/2012 postreply 13:23:26