NYT报道新泽西学区的亚裔与白人父母的教育理念冲突

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Reforms to Ease Students’ Stress Divide a New Jersey School District

A packed Board of Education meeting this month at Grover Middle School in West Windsor, N.J., where a districtwide debate that often splits along racial lines is underway about the pressure put on students there to succeed.
MARK MAKELA FOR THE NEW YORK TIMES
By KYLE SPENCER

This fall, David Aderhold, the superintendent of a high-achieving school district near Princeton, N.J., sent parents an alarming 16-page letter.

The school district, he said, was facing a crisis. Its students were overburdened and stressed out, juggling too much work and too many demands.

In the previous school year, 120 middle and high school students were recommended for mental health assessments; 40 were hospitalized. And on a survey administered by the district, students wrote things like, “I hate going to school,” and “Coming out of 12 years in this district, I have learned one thing: that a grade, a percentage or even a point is to be valued over anything else.”

With his letter, Dr. Aderhold inserted West Windsor-Plainsboro Regional School District into a national discussion about the intense focus on achievement at elite schools, and whether it has gone too far.

 

At follow-up meetings, he urged parents to join him in advocating a holistic, “whole child” approach to schooling that respects “social-emotional development” and “deep and meaningful learning” over academics alone. The alternative, he suggested, was to face the prospect of becoming another Palo Alto, Calif., where outsize stress on teenage students is believed to have contributed to two clusters of suicides in the last six years.

But instead of bringing families together, Dr. Aderhold’s letter revealed a fissure in the district, which has 9,700 students, and one that broke down roughly along racial lines. On one side are white parents like Catherine Foley, a former president of the Parent Teacher Student Association at her daughter’s middle school, who has come to see the district’s increasingly pressured atmosphere as antithetical to learning.

“My son was in fourth grade and told me, ‘I’m not going to amount to anything because I have nothing to put on my résumé,’ ” Ms. Foley said.

On the other side are parents like Mike Jia, one of the thousands of Asian-American professionals who have moved to the district in the past decade, who said Dr. Aderhold’s reforms would amount to a “dumbing down” of his children’s education.

”What is happening here reflects a national anti-intellectual trend that will not prepare our children for the future,” Mr. Jia said.

About 10 minutes from Princeton and an hour and a half from New York City, West Windsor and Plainsboro have become popular bedroom communities for technology entrepreneurs, pharmaceutical researchers and engineers, drawn in large part by the public schools. From the last three graduating classes, 16 seniors were admitted to M.I.T. It churns out Science Olympiad winners, classically trained musicians and students with perfect SAT scores.

The district has become increasingly popular with immigrant families from China, India and Korea. This year, 65 percent of its students are Asian-American, compared with 44 percent in 2007. Many of them are the first in their families born in the United States.

They have had a growing influence on the district. Asian-American parents are enthusiastic supporters of the competitive instrumental music program. They have been huge supporters of the district’s advanced mathematics program, which once began in the fourth grade but will now start in the sixth. The change to the program, in which 90 percent of the participating students are Asian-American, is one of Dr. Aderhold’s reforms.

 

Asian-American students have been avid participants in a state program that permits them to take summer classes off campus for high school credit, allowing them to maximize the number of honors and Advanced Placement classes they can take, another practice that Dr. Aderhold is limiting this school year.

With many Asian-American children attending supplemental instructional programs, there is a perception among some white families that the elementary school curriculum is being sped up to accommodate them.

Both Asian-American and white families say the tension between the two groups has grown steadily over the past few years, as the number of Asian families has risen. But the division has become more obvious in recent months as Dr. Aderhold has made changes, including no-homework nights, an end to high school midterms and finals, and a “right to squeak” initiative that made it easier to participate in the music program.

At a packed meeting of the school district’s Board of Education held shortly before the winter break, a middle school cafeteria was filled with parents, with Asian-Americans sitting on one side and white families on the other. Some parents and students described rampant cheating, grade fixation and days so stressful that some students could not wait for them to end. But other parents, primarily Asian-American ones, described a different picture, one in which their values were being ignored.

Helen Yin, the mother of an eighth grader and a kindergartner, told the crowd that Dr. Aderhold was attempting to hold her and her children back. At one point, a visibly upset Ms. Yin, who moved from Chengdu, China, to pursue a master’s degree in chemistry, shouted to the room filled with parents, “Who can I trust?”

“I don’t think limitations can help,” she said later, in an interview. “If children are to learn and grow, they need experiences.”

Jennifer Lee, professor of sociology at the University of California, Irvine, and an author of “The Asian American Achievement Paradox,” says misunderstandings between first-generation Asian-American parents and those who have been in this country longer are common. What white middle-class parents do not always understand, she said, is how much pressure recent immigrants feel to boost their children into the middle class.

“They don’t have the same chances to get their children internships or jobs at law firms,” Professor Lee said. “So what they believe is that their children must excel beyond their white peers in academic settings so they have the same chances to excel later.”

 

The issue of the stresses felt by students in elite school districts has gained attention in recent years as schools in places like Newton, Mass., and Palo Alto have reported clusters of suicides. West Windsor-Plainsboro has not had a teenage suicide in recent years, but Dr. Aderhold, who has worked in the district for seven years and been superintendent for the last two and a half, said he had seen troubling signs.

In a recent art assignment, a middle school student depicted an overburdened child who was being berated for earning an A, rather than an A+, on a calculus exam. In the image, the mother scolds the student with the words, “Shame on you!”

Further, he said, the New Jersey Education Department has flagged at least two pieces of writing on state English language assessments in which students expressed suicidal thoughts.

The survey commissioned by the district found that 68 percent of high school honor and Advanced Placement students reported feeling stressed about school “always or most of the time.”

“We need to bring back some balance,” Dr. Aderhold said. “You don’t want to wait until it’s too late to do something.”

Not all public opinion has fallen along racial lines.

Karen Sue, the Chinese-American mother of a fifth grader and an eighth grader, believes the competition within the district has gotten out of control. Ms. Sue, who was born in the United States to immigrant parents, wants her peers to dial it back.

“It’s become an arms race, an educational arms race,” she said. “We all want our kids to achieve and be successful. The question is, at what cost?”

 

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这个学区华裔(华, 印, 韩)占65% -bustout- 给 bustout 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 12/25/2015 postreply 13:57:28

长此下去的结果会是什么样的?老白慢慢移走只有亚裔坚持阵地和理念? -Rockeymountain- 给 Rockeymountain 发送悄悄话 Rockeymountain 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/25/2015 postreply 14:01:30

亚洲人在一个区里, 自己和自己竞争, 好学校把握名额尺度。 这些都是自己找的。 -autumnjune- 给 autumnjune 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 12/25/2015 postreply 15:24:36

真正的后果就是培养了一堆高分的学生,而对知识和社会的热爱与探求却非常匮乏。 -Rockeymountain- 给 Rockeymountain 发送悄悄话 Rockeymountain 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/25/2015 postreply 15:32:29

认为高分必然低能,这是一种偏见。 -千里一盏灯- 给 千里一盏灯 发送悄悄话 千里一盏灯 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/25/2015 postreply 16:03:11

能力也能提高上去, 但是需要时间。 -autumnjune- 给 autumnjune 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 12/25/2015 postreply 16:07:48

高分低能和低分高能都是少数 -Dream2016- 给 Dream2016 发送悄悄话 (56 bytes) () 12/25/2015 postreply 16:10:28

具体说, 分数和能力的相关性肯定不是直线的。 -autumnjune- 给 autumnjune 发送悄悄话 (124 bytes) () 12/25/2015 postreply 16:26:42

这两种不能比。不是线型相关,但还是正向相关 -Dream2016- 给 Dream2016 发送悄悄话 (269 bytes) () 12/25/2015 postreply 16:38:57

I am saying above certain threshold, an incremental point of aca -autumnjune- 给 autumnjune 发送悄悄话 (70 bytes) () 12/25/2015 postreply 16:40:29

+1 -飞*星- 给 飞*星 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 12/25/2015 postreply 18:17:51

高分低能的人还是有一定比例的,本谈就不少:)当然也不会是全部,比较全能的人也是有的。具体人数其实不好算,因为高分还可查,低能没有 --百科-- 给 -百科- 发送悄悄话 -百科- 的博客首页 (26 bytes) () 12/25/2015 postreply 18:39:16

能力未必低但兴趣缺缺因为没passion。老中是不会赞成孩子从事自己热爱却没钱途的职业的。 -Rockeymountain- 给 Rockeymountain 发送悄悄话 Rockeymountain 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/25/2015 postreply 16:18:50

+1。许多人总爱拿这句口号说事。高分的人未必高能,但低分的人很难高能,学东西总是比别人慢几拍。 -飞*星- 给 飞*星 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 12/25/2015 postreply 18:14:37

低能不是真的能力低,而是一种自我限制。比如,敢考名校,但居然连个work permit都怕搞不定。 --百科-- 给 -百科- 发送悄悄话 -百科- 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/25/2015 postreply 18:29:55

为了得高分,大量时间和精力都花费在其中 -tgmomtobe- 给 tgmomtobe 发送悄悄话 (245 bytes) () 12/25/2015 postreply 19:57:42

可能 -wenhaomama- 给 wenhaomama 发送悄悄话 (212 bytes) () 12/25/2015 postreply 20:19:30

+1 -couldbeworse- 给 couldbeworse 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 12/27/2015 postreply 16:29:13

Wow! 读了这片文章让俺很震惊,真没想到老中的影响力如此巨大。 -Rockeymountain- 给 Rockeymountain 发送悄悄话 Rockeymountain 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/25/2015 postreply 13:59:09

人多力量大。 -bustout- 给 bustout 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 12/25/2015 postreply 14:09:35

不想跑或跑得慢的学生可以跑慢车道么,干么总想着取消快车道不让别人跑? -飞*星- 给 飞*星 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 12/25/2015 postreply 14:05:41

问题是亚裔的快车定义颠覆老白的快车定义。亚裔的快车是集中一切拼academic。 -Rockeymountain- 给 Rockeymountain 发送悄悄话 Rockeymountain 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/25/2015 postreply 14:20:13

你要是把好学生定义成德智体美劳全面发展,亚裔也会excel。其实就是分馅饼的问题。到底是能者多分,还是按肤色,或是祖上荫惠。 -燕京十景- 给 燕京十景 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 12/25/2015 postreply 14:26:13

Fine。那白人学生就去拼他们所认为的快车道呗,比如 啦啦队,足球,时装,popularity contests。亚裔家长没嚷着 -飞*星- 给 飞*星 发送悄悄话 (38 bytes) () 12/25/2015 postreply 15:47:10

我看这些白人就是一帮whiners,自己跑不快或懒得跑却要想法子拖人家后腿。完后转过头来喊,我们要做世界第一,不是第二! -飞*星- 给 飞*星 发送悄悄话 (29 bytes) () 12/25/2015 postreply 16:05:58

怎么没嚷啊,亚裔不也老说好莱坞没有好的亚裔形象:) --百科-- 给 -百科- 发送悄悄话 -百科- 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/25/2015 postreply 19:46:09

那好啊,从小抓起,在学校里猛抓 表演欲和popularity,只要学校不废除便好。 -飞*星- 给 飞*星 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 12/25/2015 postreply 20:43:16

你是说亚裔应该从小抓戏剧?呵呵,有几个会听你的?你自己就不干吧。然后就抱怨:) --百科-- 给 -百科- 发送悄悄话 -百科- 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/25/2015 postreply 21:00:50

我几时抱怨过啊?我又不吃那行饭,我甚至还不看他们的戏。大把中国的影视作品都目不暇接了。赫赫 -飞*星- 给 飞*星 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 12/25/2015 postreply 21:30:01

你抱怨还少啊:) --百科-- 给 -百科- 发送悄悄话 -百科- 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/25/2015 postreply 22:34:50

嗯,让我回想回想。。不过啊在美国,抱怨是好事,民主么,言论自由么。不哭的孩子是没奶喝的。所以我很佩服文中那位成都来的妈妈, -飞*星- 给 飞*星 发送悄悄话 (109 bytes) () 12/25/2015 postreply 22:48:57

请问亚裔学生是自己想跑得快吗? -SwiperTheFox- 给 SwiperTheFox 发送悄悄话 SwiperTheFox 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/25/2015 postreply 14:25:16

这个,adoption study似乎有明确结论。 -燕京十景- 给 燕京十景 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 12/25/2015 postreply 14:27:31

亚裔学生当然也有跑得慢的,父母知道自己孩子什么斤两,就别去跟风快跑者呗。 -飞*星- 给 飞*星 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 12/25/2015 postreply 15:43:55

如果真的是这样,原贴的就不会存在了。 -SwiperTheFox- 给 SwiperTheFox 发送悄悄话 SwiperTheFox 的博客首页 (98 bytes) () 12/25/2015 postreply 16:00:04

知道自己斤两就好,别去跟风。没人逼他们去比拼啊。美国人不是常说么,be yourself ! -飞*星- 给 飞*星 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 12/25/2015 postreply 16:10:39

原贴反映的问题恰恰就是众多家长不知道斤两,拔苗助长。 -SwiperTheFox- 给 SwiperTheFox 发送悄悄话 SwiperTheFox 的博客首页 (66 bytes) () 12/25/2015 postreply 16:16:07

自己拔得没方法,却要学校加个盖子把其它苗儿都罩住不让长?还以"保护孩子"的名义? -飞*星- 给 飞*星 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 12/25/2015 postreply 20:39:00

都是沽名钓誉的家长在叫嚣,没几个学生会站出来喊 -SwiperTheFox- 给 SwiperTheFox 发送悄悄话 SwiperTheFox 的博客首页 (44 bytes) () 12/25/2015 postreply 16:20:25

当然,即使普通课,也没有多少个学生会主动喊,我们要考试!我们要考试! -飞*星- 给 飞*星 发送悄悄话 (380 bytes) () 12/25/2015 postreply 20:34:57

高中以前是普及教育, 以后是选拔教育。随着美国人口增加,机会减少,以后的教育模式肯定跟英法德差不多,统考,分流。除 -燕京十景- 给 燕京十景 发送悄悄话 (71 bytes) () 12/25/2015 postreply 14:05:59

我站在karen sue这边, -princessonthepea- 给 princessonthepea 发送悄悄话 princessonthepea 的博客首页 (830 bytes) () 12/25/2015 postreply 15:11:00

说得太好了! -SwiperTheFox- 给 SwiperTheFox 发送悄悄话 SwiperTheFox 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/25/2015 postreply 15:25:28

同意。现在的现象就是许多小中完全被老中的国内是基础教育理念趋驶,为所谓的高分打破头。 -Rockeymountain- 给 Rockeymountain 发送悄悄话 Rockeymountain 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/25/2015 postreply 15:29:41

学生追逐分数是表象, -Dream2016- 给 Dream2016 发送悄悄话 (144 bytes) () 12/25/2015 postreply 16:14:38

我可以选择不被绑架 -princessonthepea- 给 princessonthepea 发送悄悄话 princessonthepea 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/25/2015 postreply 16:25:16

被绑架是可以选择的吗? -Dream2016- 给 Dream2016 发送悄悄话 (44 bytes) () 12/25/2015 postreply 16:35:15

当然可以选择,选择不迷失在竞争中;选择搬家;选择上和我教育理论更贴近的学校 -princessonthepea- 给 princessonthepea 发送悄悄话 princessonthepea 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/25/2015 postreply 17:31:41

我觉得华裔整体应该检讨的是自己对教育的思维模式 -SwiperTheFox- 给 SwiperTheFox 发送悄悄话 SwiperTheFox 的博客首页 (51 bytes) () 12/25/2015 postreply 16:46:04

招生制度已经淡化成绩了,可这点恰恰是最受亚裔反对的。学校怎么办?抽签?这样大家才能不追逐分数,因为真的没用。 --百科-- 给 -百科- 发送悄悄话 -百科- 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/25/2015 postreply 19:01:22

抽签上大学。大学里抽签考试。考试里抽签给 A,B,C。然后抽签毕业,抽签分配工作,抽签当医生。。。 -飞*星- 给 飞*星 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 12/25/2015 postreply 20:47:25

抽签也有很适用的,比如投资专家就不见得比抽签好,他们可是所谓最聪明的,LOL --百科-- 给 -百科- 发送悄悄话 -百科- 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/25/2015 postreply 21:02:52

这个确实是恶性竞争 -吃喝大王- 给 吃喝大王 发送悄悄话 (349 bytes) () 12/26/2015 postreply 08:33:22

那么区人多资源少, 真正有点成就的父母也就送孩子上私立了。 -autumnjune- 给 autumnjune 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 12/25/2015 postreply 15:22:59

你以为私立没有同样的竞争?只是私立人数少,而且是自己选择去的,报道了也不会有共鸣。 -Francine- 给 Francine 发送悄悄话 Francine 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/25/2015 postreply 15:32:39

亚裔多的地方就会有这样的理念冲突。 -Rockeymountain- 给 Rockeymountain 发送悄悄话 Rockeymountain 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/25/2015 postreply 15:46:44

私立学校竞争更厉害 哈哈:) 但是私立学校人少, 每个孩子得到的关注多。 -autumnjune- 给 autumnjune 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 12/25/2015 postreply 15:53:48

然后呢,走入社会后, -wenhaomama- 给 wenhaomama 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 12/25/2015 postreply 18:12:34

如果大多数人不得安乐,精英也是做不稳的 --百科-- 给 -百科- 发送悄悄话 -百科- 的博客首页 (53 bytes) () 12/25/2015 postreply 21:06:47

所以 -wenhaomama- 给 wenhaomama 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 12/25/2015 postreply 21:27:50

呵呵 --百科-- 给 -百科- 发送悄悄话 -百科- 的博客首页 (194 bytes) () 12/25/2015 postreply 22:36:53

闲聊中听来的 -ca981- 给 ca981 发送悄悄话 ca981 的博客首页 (444 bytes) () 12/25/2015 postreply 19:42:06

20年经济变化挺大的,学校变化的原因很难讲是什么,毕竟当年多数人也一样逛街不去藤的。如果当年40%去藤,现在没有,那个才比较惊人 --百科-- 给 -百科- 发送悄悄话 -百科- 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/25/2015 postreply 19:51:24

这是一例典型的老中高考思维模式犯傻自残的案例 -tibuko- 给 tibuko 发送悄悄话 tibuko 的博客首页 (827 bytes) () 12/25/2015 postreply 23:12:38

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