今年圣诞节送给儿子的精神食粮（全英文版，头晕者慎入）

 

 

 

Dear son:

 

The only thing we, as parents, would like to see from our children, is that s/he is safe, healthy, happy and energized.

 

No matter what scores you get, no matter what prizes you win, and no matter which college you end up with, our love to you will not be impacted a bit. The joy you bring to us will not be impacted a bit.

 

Neither will these outside effects define you. Your value comes from within, and from your self-efficacy. As long as you trust yourself, trust your efforts, trust your genes, and follow your internal desire, you will become a great man. And finding peace in mind in this college mania era, especially in the area we live, will be the little extra bonus side effect all of us will get in the remaining high school time.

 

Always remember that if something didn’t happen the way you wanted it to, it only means that your life is just taking another route towards the destination. Try to enjoy this alternate path and alternate views.  You are the only one that can be in charge of what your destination will be.

 

Don’t worry too much, you will be fine, and your life will be much better than ours! Try to Enjoy what you are doing. Or find something that is enjoyable to you.

 

Hope to see you smile, sing and dance everyday in 2016!

 

love, mom and dad

on Christmas, 2015

 

 

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• 赞！赶快翻成中文 -- 英文感觉不够煽情。。。中文应该能超过读者文摘水平 -skyport- ♂ (0 bytes) () 12/17/2015 postreply 09:53:13

• 才女 -2boysmom- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/17/2015 postreply 09:53:34

• 绝对的国藤才女。 -skyport- ♂ (0 bytes) () 12/17/2015 postreply 09:59:40

• 才女！ -我爱拉氏- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/17/2015 postreply 10:00:13

• 赞才女！说了俺不会说的话，今晚一定给儿子看。 -flyingclouds- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/17/2015 postreply 10:05:57

• 看不懂e文，瞎猜其中意思 -不客气了- ♀ (149 bytes) () 12/17/2015 postreply 10:09:02

• 对滴！ -小迷的英雄氅- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/17/2015 postreply 11:33:24

• 实名点赞！ -jingzhumama- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/17/2015 postreply 10:09:29

• 泪奔！写得真好 -芹菜妈- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/17/2015 postreply 10:11:58

• 写的太好了！ -高山峻岭流水人家- ♂ (0 bytes) () 12/17/2015 postreply 10:12:03

• 被感動了。但是最为家长的我们很难真正做到你所说的那么释然，否则就不会有那么多“报喜”和“恭喜”的帖子了。 -Alice95035- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/17/2015 postreply 10:15:35

• 所以俺经过非慎重考虑，决定 -小迷的英雄氅- ♀ (217 bytes) () 12/17/2015 postreply 11:28:41

• 感动的要流泪了。 -代小酒- ♀ (244 bytes) () 12/17/2015 postreply 10:19:04

• 为妈妈的一片爱心感动。 -桑青- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/17/2015 postreply 10:26:06

• 又一脑后长反骨的, lol -Doggy1- ♂ (30 bytes) () 12/17/2015 postreply 10:26:42

• 写得真好. -英文关键字- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/17/2015 postreply 10:27:12

• 看上去这essay感动的都是父母们，把给儿女们的精神粮都吃光了 -mmmwww- ♂ (0 bytes) () 12/17/2015 postreply 10:35:40

• 有帅锅 -freshgreen- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/17/2015 postreply 10:45:24

• 太及时了，感动～ -softlanding- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/17/2015 postreply 10:50:42

• 很感动，不过友情提醒一下哈，落笔可能会被孩子以后抓到尾巴的地方是这句： -羽衣飞飞- ♀ (1409 bytes) () 12/17/2015 postreply 10:58:32

• 照片里是儿子吗？ 真帅，还能看出是个好孩子 -牛仔酷001- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/17/2015 postreply 11:02:35

• 你是"只当自己爹妈的女儿"那个小迷? -Doggy1- ♂ (20 bytes) () 12/17/2015 postreply 11:02:51

• 是！ -小迷的英雄氅- ♀ (253 bytes) () 12/17/2015 postreply 11:27:21

• 我觉得儿子会特别感动你写的倒数第二段. 这个真的是在放弃父母所有的控制. 希望孩子enjoy life. -雪白小兔- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/17/2015 postreply 11:17:17

• 看到最后一句泪奔。。当俺的心声晚上给娃看 -八千万- ♀ (229 bytes) () 12/17/2015 postreply 11:27:40

• 感动才女，是俺收到的最好圣诞礼物。LOL。 -小迷的英雄氅- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/17/2015 postreply 11:31:06

• 小迷，你感动死我了。。。 -jiandany- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/17/2015 postreply 11:31:09

• 各位，一并感谢捧场。祝大家 -小迷的英雄氅- ♀ (83 bytes) () 12/17/2015 postreply 11:32:38

• 大家快去小迷博客看驯娃记6，7，绝了 -八千万- ♀ (216 bytes) () 12/17/2015 postreply 11:38:09

• 一片苦心。感觉你娃压力好大啊，竟然在圣诞写这些：） -怀旧一点点- ♀ (23 bytes) () 12/17/2015 postreply 12:07:57

• 不好意思，说点不同意见，要不要听？不要就不说了：） --百科-- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/17/2015 postreply 13:10:26

• is this for X'mas? -qiaomaidou6- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/17/2015 postreply 13:45:51

• 积极，正能量，赞。 -心意合一- ♂ (0 bytes) () 12/17/2015 postreply 15:32:33