If you think somebody says "stupid，dumb" to you is abuse,

then you said to your kid is abuse, too.

You could abuse him only because he depends on you, for now.

In my lifetime I never said "stupid" to anybody else, except myself, when I did something stupid. Other's life is not for me to control, even my kids.

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• 我不觉得是abuse，我自己有时也很stupid，跟娃有关是我也会告诉他妈妈好stupid啊 -怀旧一点点- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/02/2015 postreply 16:49:21

• If your boss/teacher/husband said "stupid" to you, you are still -LAChinese- ♂ (215 bytes) () 12/02/2015 postreply 17:17:25

• It is not neutral, but it could very well be precise. -怀旧一点点- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/02/2015 postreply 17:26:38