Can you care without push?

Most like children would not color the sun black;

In case they did color the sun black, can you appreciate it? See it from Children's eye? Can you try to understand why they did it?

Can you praise without intent to praise? Express your feelings withough judging?

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• yes, we can! -Rock.rose- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/22/2015 postreply 09:23:36

• It is too hard to Express your feelings withough judging. -时间呢- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/22/2015 postreply 09:23:42

• That's where one improves parenting -SwiperTheFox- ♂ (0 bytes) () 01/22/2015 postreply 09:25:09

• I always praise without any reason. 女儿会说,　你这样说是因为我是你女儿：））） -红尘一笑- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/22/2015 postreply 09:26:08

• No. Can you let a tree grow without trimming? -soundofsilence- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/22/2015 postreply 09:27:34

• 自家树不行，人家的可以：－） -喜近平- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/22/2015 postreply 09:29:35

• 人家的我也不剪。费力不讨好的活。 -soundofsilence- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/22/2015 postreply 09:31:11

• I tried, it looked like the house never had people inside -时间呢- ♀ (17 bytes) () 01/22/2015 postreply 09:31:07

• Trimming make trees grow better in human's eyes (for human's nee -SwiperTheFox- ♂ (142 bytes) () 01/22/2015 postreply 09:31:06

• Well. What you did not see is that most of trees died -soundofsilence- ♀ (88 bytes) () 01/22/2015 postreply 09:32:53

• I do provide food, shelter and care--that's different from natur -SwiperTheFox- ♂ (151 bytes) () 01/22/2015 postreply 09:35:49

• Yeah, they will survive alright. But is that all you and kids wa -soundofsilence- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/22/2015 postreply 09:48:49

• What matters is what they want-- -SwiperTheFox- ♂ (53 bytes) () 01/22/2015 postreply 09:54:09

• The problem is that what they want may not be good for them -soundofsilence- ♀ (210 bytes) () 01/22/2015 postreply 09:57:45

• That's a fundamental difference -SwiperTheFox- ♂ (33 bytes) () 01/22/2015 postreply 09:59:40

• 也许高风险高收益？ -时间呢- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/22/2015 postreply 10:05:55

• I trust them, but only to the extend that they can handle. -soundofsilence- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/22/2015 postreply 10:07:13

• 人生本身就是risk，不想take这个，它就会“逼”你take另外一个。反正risk怎么都是逃不过去的：） --百科-- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/22/2015 postreply 09:37:03

• ever been to an orchard? -Rock.rose- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/22/2015 postreply 09:36:21

• 他显然不喜欢温室里的花朵儿：）） --百科-- ♀ (144 bytes) () 01/22/2015 postreply 09:40:19

• 世界才美丽 -时间呢- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/22/2015 postreply 09:41:40

• 俺也不喜欢温室的花朵。。。 是不是回帖跑的很乱套？ -Rock.rose- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/22/2015 postreply 09:43:04

• No. we care, but we also need to give pressure when it is needed -羽衣飞飞- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/22/2015 postreply 09:28:20

• In fact, I would be impressed if he colors the Sun black. :) -CirrusCloud- ♀ (70 bytes) () 01/22/2015 postreply 09:29:29

• 就是，这多独特啊：） --百科-- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/22/2015 postreply 09:30:47

• 我会仔细想原因，颜色后面代表心情的 -羽衣飞飞- ♀ (273 bytes) () 01/22/2015 postreply 09:33:01

• 还在套子里，没出来 -时间呢- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/22/2015 postreply 09:35:32

• 想太多，太累：） --百科-- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/22/2015 postreply 09:38:14

• 没关系，不得老年痴呆 -时间呢- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/22/2015 postreply 09:38:48

• 那还不如自己去练琴：） --百科-- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/22/2015 postreply 09:42:49

• 就一比方。 我们要推孩子：不能只见树木不见森林。 -喜近平- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/22/2015 postreply 09:35:03

• Well, I am using the same analogy too -SwiperTheFox- ♂ (17 bytes) () 01/22/2015 postreply 09:36:51

• Abby小时候曾经画过方太阳方月亮。问她说方的好摞在一起。哈哈 -Abby妈妈- ♀ (186 bytes) () 01/22/2015 postreply 09:41:15

• 我儿子不推的一天可以是这样在家的 -飞鸟和鱼- ♀ (596 bytes) () 01/22/2015 postreply 09:41:44

• 1. Game time should be limited. -SwiperTheFox- ♂ (75 bytes) () 01/22/2015 postreply 09:45:59

• limited game time = trimming -Rock.rose- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/22/2015 postreply 09:50:31

• I love u so much -时间呢- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/22/2015 postreply 10:11:07

• Ok. Watch youtube videos for the rest of the day. -soundofsilence- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/22/2015 postreply 10:08:20

• when you limit the game time, you are giving him pressure. -羽衣飞飞- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/22/2015 postreply 10:10:43

• 完了，你文章白写了。 -茶园15- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/22/2015 postreply 10:16:24

• 哈哈，跟我家的一样 --百科-- ♀ (281 bytes) () 01/22/2015 postreply 09:49:51

• +100 -inner__peace- ♀ (42 bytes) () 01/22/2015 postreply 10:13:24

• 我尊重孩子看待问题的方式, 尽量从孩子的视角去看 -WISEBAO- ♀ (272 bytes) () 01/22/2015 postreply 09:41:46

• +1， 惠宝， 我咋说不出那么深刻的话泥 -YMJSR- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/22/2015 postreply 09:55:40

• I'm determined to be the most enthusiastic cheerleader for my da -Crystaldowns- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/22/2015 postreply 10:13:59

• DING! -inner__peace- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/22/2015 postreply 10:15:04