不管你如何争扎,摆脱,溶入,你/你的孩子就是亚裔。有自己的亚裔种族特性,不是坏事,是好事。要接受自己是亚裔( At peace with yourself). 黑人,老墨,老中,老印,老白都有自己的种族特性。有优点,有不足,互相学习,互相促进,取长补短,自我进步 共同强盛美国世界。这是应该的但没必要先否定自己干净。人家西方人古稀腊时就以经讲这个道理了:
AESOP'S FABLES 125
THE CROW AND THE SWAN
A Crow was filled with envy on seeing the beautiful white plumage of a Swan, and thought it was due to the water in which the Swan constantly bathed and swam. So he left the neighbourhood of the altars, where he got his living by picking up bits of the meat offered in sacrifice, and went and lived among the pools and streams. But though he bathed and washed his feathers many times a day, he didn't make them any whiter, and at last died of hunger into the bargain.
You may change your habits, but not your nature.