如果是因为感情背叛导致的厌恶对方，相守就是慢性自杀。我的一位朋友

曾经说，she completely felt lost and hurt badly when her hu*****and told her that he slept with other woman last night. She tried so hard to accept the reality and tried so hard to forgive him. However, she was not able to do so. She felt disgusted whenever he touched her.她不愿看他不与他说话，几年后，他们结束了9年的婚姻。

如果你们不是因为这个原因而厌恶对方，问题可以解决，建议你们一起去看心理医生或教堂或多与朋友们聚聚，don't isolate yourself. If this is your case, divorce probably is the best choice. 长痛不如短痛啊。

Wish you well.