看老美家长发言,how to anti-bully

来源: derKerl 2010-09-02 11:12:09 [] [博客] [旧帖] [给我悄悄话] 本文已被阅读: 次 (1064 bytes)

The only way to deal with a bully is to fight back. If not, he/she will continue to bully. I tell my children if someone is bulling you, tell the teacher but you are in no way a PUNCHING BAG. You must protect yourself at all times; then tell the teacher. The bulling may start when the teacher is not around, which is common. There was a situation at school that my daughter was being bullied. The teacher refused to place them seated apart. My daughter told me of the situation, and when I talked to the teacher, she said she put the children together because they needed to learn to get along. He would call my daughter four eyes and kick at her while she sat in the chair. They were both about nine or ten. Then one day I get this call because my daughter let loose on his tail at lunch. She told me what had happened and how all the students laughed at him getting beat. After that day, no more bully problems. I know we shouldn't encourage our kids to fight but all the share the same values.

他女儿到底做了什么,那男孩被制服? punch his balls?

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kick butt -流浪教师- 给 流浪教师 发送悄悄话 流浪教师 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 09/02/2010 postreply 11:14:56

my son told me: beat up or kick balls -derKerl- 给 derKerl 发送悄悄话 derKerl 的博客首页 (40 bytes) () 09/02/2010 postreply 14:34:29

同意.正常渠道走不通,就打回去 -MMXIAO- 给 MMXIAO 发送悄悄话 MMXIAO 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 09/02/2010 postreply 11:23:52

孩子要有对抗的本钱呀。块头小要吃亏。 -Morning3evening4- 给 Morning3evening4 发送悄悄话 Morning3evening4 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 09/02/2010 postreply 11:30:49

个头只是一个因素而已:) -胡桃架子-- 给 胡桃架子- 发送悄悄话 胡桃架子- 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 09/02/2010 postreply 11:35:28

那当然。但那个父母干让这么小的孩子拼命呀。:(。 -Morning3evening4- 给 Morning3evening4 发送悄悄话 Morning3evening4 的博客首页 (128 bytes) () 09/02/2010 postreply 11:42:22

:) -胡桃架子-- 给 胡桃架子- 发送悄悄话 胡桃架子- 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 09/02/2010 postreply 11:48:02

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