基本赞同你先生。

如果钱不是太多，就当助人为乐了，更何况邻居。来往就算了，免得麻烦。给钱时最好有第三者在场，跟他讲明你询问过孩子，查无实据。给钱是出于MERCY。这样你什么理也不缺，于心也平安。你的邻居也没什么话柄可编排。就此了结，干干净净的岂不好。多少大争执起于渺渺小事。退一步海阔天空，不和他一般见识。

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• No. Never! You are giving a really bad idea. -MoveSoon- ♂ (346 bytes) () 04/21/2009 postreply 13:48:45

• 多少算不多呢？ -momof2boys- ♀ (103 bytes) () 04/21/2009 postreply 13:53:39

• It is not a Money 多 or 少 case. Never think about it. -MoveSoon- ♂ (0 bytes) () 04/21/2009 postreply 14:19:34

• if her son did not do it, then he did not do it unless -wendi- ♀ (216 bytes) () 04/21/2009 postreply 14:05:26

• Agree -ttsian- ♂ (0 bytes) () 04/21/2009 postreply 14:14:36

• Totally agree!!! -MoveSoon- ♂ (0 bytes) () 04/21/2009 postreply 14:18:12

• AGREE! -123yes- ♀ (0 bytes) () 04/21/2009 postreply 17:57:19