你们累不累呀? 9因为送孩子上名校？

Let the kids be kids, please.

We did push our kids for some piano lessons early on. But we honored DS's decision when he did not want to take any more lessons in JH. Both our kids pick their own sports and classes 100%. With limited income, we really never even think about a private HS. Most of the population are educated by the public school.

Well, some of you may think we failed because our DD did not get into HYP. But we are o.k. with that. I really regret that I pushed DD to get higher standard test scores instead of doing what she wanted to do.

As the old saying, the head will be straight when the boat comes to the front of the bridge. If your kids have what it take to be successful, he/she will be. Pushing them this hard at 6th grade is not cool, IMHO.

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• 马拉松开始时都不累的，哈哈：））） -20146- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/26/2009 postreply 12:38:20

• 嘿,大奔好.其实是瞎聊,孩子又不是木头.人家还不要你推呢:)) -小城故事09- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/26/2009 postreply 12:39:14

• 高调啊? -A-Momy- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/26/2009 postreply 12:41:56

• 估计吹牛的也不少, 不然真可能高中没毕业就BURN OUT. -云中飞燕- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/26/2009 postreply 12:45:18

• 那你真错了 -A-Momy- ♀ (10 bytes) () 03/26/2009 postreply 12:47:03

• 我从没推我儿子数学, 他在班上也是最好的. 他还是在所谓的GT班.虽然我没看出啥特别. -云中飞燕- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/26/2009 postreply 12:51:13

• 建议多潜水:) -A-Momy- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/26/2009 postreply 12:52:51

• 特别是数学, 中国孩子都不会差的, 多看看书,练练写作还有必要. -云中飞燕- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/26/2009 postreply 12:53:00

• 还有逻辑是智商的范围,不管是考GT,还是智商测定里都有它. -云中飞燕- ♀ (75 bytes) () 03/26/2009 postreply 12:58:38

• 当娘的不累这累啥？不然你去军坛啥的转转，那里你可能不觉累。 -木每- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/26/2009 postreply 12:45:49

• 哈哈，我连娃学不学piano都不会推 -izze- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/26/2009 postreply 12:46:35

• 小孩自己吃不饱的多，高兴跳着玩，名校还没想：）） -晴初- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/26/2009 postreply 12:49:13

• 回复：你们累不累呀? 9因为送孩子上名校？ -TheKids- ♀ (201 bytes) () 03/26/2009 postreply 12:49:24

• 推孩子也得分是顺水推舟，还是推推搡搡，或者仅仅是关键时刻帮把手，将那车子往前推一把。 -hobo-hobo- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/26/2009 postreply 13:15:00

• 是，确实有很多家长是在顺水推舟，很不幸都被当成推推搡搡 -walkabout- ♀ (62 bytes) () 03/26/2009 postreply 13:25:08