gossipgirl8 和 常常 posts 的想法

我们新移民是否不够自信?当和学校或同学有conflicts时先想到"不公正待遇""受欺负".

If 常常 can 开始就主动地告诉学校 nurse and class room teacher,
1. 病是传染的
2. 传染的途径
3.已看医生,已抹上药. 现不传染
4. if you have any more questions, there is my kid's doctor contact info
5. Considering other kid's health and being safe, I will let my kids stay home for couple days.
我想这样赢得学校 nurse and class room teacher's respects and help.

Be popular=get alone with all kinds people. If our kids want to be popular in the school, we need to teach our kids "Beware of others".

In gossipgirl18's case, 我会教我的孩子write a letter as following and put to 邻居的信箱.让孩子知道 there are so many ways to results conflicts. 好的results IS: Win other's respect and win a friend.

Dear XXX, I am your 邻居 YYY. I feel sad/scared when you kicked my chair on the school bus. I do not like it. Would you please stop it? I like to be your friend and invite you come to my house to play. Would you please be my friend?

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• 四两拨千斤，化“敌”为友，是最高境界了:) -123YES- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/24/2009 postreply 17:42:22

• 小孩子这样写信会给小朋友笑死了.很好玩:) -citygirl08- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/24/2009 postreply 17:54:32

• why -42now- ♀ (67 bytes) () 01/24/2009 postreply 20:28:05

• 搞的真复杂。孩子生活中的这种小事都这么关注，真是要累死了。 -蜜瓜- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/24/2009 postreply 17:59:19

• 想用"这种小事"教孩子和人相处和人沟通 -42now- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/24/2009 postreply 20:39:35

• 想法很好，做法很书生气。如果你养过5岁的男孩子就知道了。另外， -蜜瓜- ♀ (285 bytes) () 01/24/2009 postreply 20:55:21

• 不从小的事情学,遇到大事再学? -42now- ♀ (238 bytes) () 01/24/2009 postreply 22:19:49

• 好了，不说了。Let's just agree to disagree.:)) 你一定是一个真诚， -蜜瓜- ♀ (81 bytes) () 01/24/2009 postreply 22:48:27

• 2boys and 1 girls -42now- ♀ (611 bytes) () 01/24/2009 postreply 23:40:44

• 写信本身就不是最好的解决方法，要教会孩子当面沟通 -毕小珠-- ♀ (210 bytes) () 01/24/2009 postreply 20:58:06

• yes.,孩子当面沟通 first -42now- ♀ (357 bytes) () 01/24/2009 postreply 22:49:27

• 这就是一种很好的沟通（家长间）。让小孩直接沟通当然更好，但要等小孩ready。 -sunrisef- ♂ (267 bytes) () 01/25/2009 postreply 07:04:30

• 为别人的行为提供建议是好事,但是说的好象你最对,就很可笑了. -飞鸟和鱼- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/24/2009 postreply 22:38:03

• sorry , I have no attention to suggest my建议最对. -42now- ♀ (16 bytes) () 01/24/2009 postreply 23:02:15

• SORRY,我说的太重了. -飞鸟和鱼- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/27/2009 postreply 07:50:44