回到家里,继续逃避,也不为上学做准备,对自己说,到时候才会知道孩子需要什么不需要什么嘛,早操心也是白操心。"
This is the cause of chaos. It is always a good idea to be fully prepared for any change, as your panic could be even amplified in children's eyes.
That all said, it is hard to beleive how "tough" schools are back in China. My son and I won't survive there easily. :)