thanks.These are things that have caused my resentament for

him. His dad passed away last year while he was visiting China. He should know. I think he enjoys controlling me and our finance. I had to fight with him on sending my oldest son to swimming lessons in the past. Now he's not that mean but still won't give kids rides if he's against it. And I had to drive a long distance to do it. What kind of father I got for my kids! I just felt so guilty.