诚心请求:对女儿没辙了

上次收到学校Social worker 的EMAIL抱怨女儿在学校的有问题 (我们这里学校是老师都让Social worker来处理若麻烦的孩子).回来问了缘由.是另一小孩说了她没他好之类的话.觉得是女儿不对.和她说过多少次这种情况别理他就可以了. 可她每次都要争吵到被TIME OUT为止.还从不吸取教训. 这次又教育了她一通也给TIME OUT了.这几天的好多活动也取消了. 今天又收到Social worker 的EMAIL:

M was in an argument with another student over a piece of paper and she was heard telling the student, "You suck". I have her in my office now and she is very upset with the other student and claims the other student said it first. Mrs. D (the teacher) heard only M saying it. Mrs. F the principal is out of the building today but I will have M visit with her on Monday to discuss this negative behavior.

我们在家从来不说'YOU SUCK'之类的话的. 也一直和她说什么是给说的什么是不该说的.

收到EMAIL后立即回了EMAIL说周二做HELPER时可以和她.或老师,或校长谈.然后又打了.电话过去想了解情况没人就留了MESSAGE. 都没收到回音..
不知道到时候怎么和他们谈. 女儿性格特别缰.一点不知道看脸色.气头硬压的话很难和她好好说话的. 真不知道给怎么教育她了.